queenofhearts84
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? MASSACHUSETTS
I had to get 209A restraining order against my ex over a month ago, on January 26th. Because he is not allowed to contact me himself or through anyone, the retrieval of his things was being discussed between our parents. It took two weeks for them to get back to us, then he came with the police, and took a few of his things but left the rest saying he didn't have room in the place he was staying for them and would get them "later."
This was two weeks ago. I feel like my apartment is being used as a free storage facility, and I know he has since moved into his own, larger place so the no room excuse is no longer in play.
There has been no further contact about him picking up the rest of his belongings, and I was wondering if there was a certain amount of time I'm legally supposed to give him to get his things before I can dispose of them?
Also: he has a junk/thumb drive of mine that he used to retrieve his files from my computer, which I have no doubt he'll deny having. Is there a way I can get this back, or is it not worth even trying?
Thank you for any advice/information.
I had to get 209A restraining order against my ex over a month ago, on January 26th. Because he is not allowed to contact me himself or through anyone, the retrieval of his things was being discussed between our parents. It took two weeks for them to get back to us, then he came with the police, and took a few of his things but left the rest saying he didn't have room in the place he was staying for them and would get them "later."
This was two weeks ago. I feel like my apartment is being used as a free storage facility, and I know he has since moved into his own, larger place so the no room excuse is no longer in play.
There has been no further contact about him picking up the rest of his belongings, and I was wondering if there was a certain amount of time I'm legally supposed to give him to get his things before I can dispose of them?
Also: he has a junk/thumb drive of mine that he used to retrieve his files from my computer, which I have no doubt he'll deny having. Is there a way I can get this back, or is it not worth even trying?
Thank you for any advice/information.