I live in Ohio. I have an ex boyfriend who is threatening to post nude pictures and inappropriate videos (some were sent by me, others he took with and without my knowledge) of me online if I don't get back with him. He is clinically bipolar and has tracked my location, hacked my icloud and read my messages - messaged people from my accounts. He has logged into my social media accounts, changed my passwords, messaged my friends. Before we broke up he would send me snap chats with guns to his head or driving 90 mph threatening to kill himself if I left him, I have screenshots. I don't know what to do. I have blocked him on social media, changed all my passwords (he is still getting in some how), I am scared to block his number becasue I am in nursing school and him posting those photos could prevent me from being licensed for being inappropriate.
Listen, you are going to be ok. I know this is a scary thing, but you have to go to the police. You need to get over the fear and the shame and the part of you that still care about him and report this. If you have the means a lawyer can help.
I know you are afraid of the consequences of to your career. This is the 21st century. Even is this wasn't part of some hrribly abusive crime against you it would not be the end of your career. There are nurses who literally did and still DO commercial pornography by their own choice. This is going to be ok. You are not going to be called out over some videos you and your boyfriend made. And revenge porn is not going to ruin your carreer. He is using that fear to control you. Stop letting him control you.
You may want to contact the help desk of these social media sites an have them lock or at least engage 2 factor authorization. You may want to take a social media break for a few months. The big sites like Facebook have resoruces to help in stalker situations.
Consider to talk to a woman's support group. You need to have a plan in case he escalates to violence. I know that is scary but please think about it. Make sure people you trust are checking in with you. Make sure friends and family know your plan and have 'signals' if you are in danger and need to make them aware discretely. Please tell people you know and trust about what is going on - even if you are scared or ashamed about the sex videos. Especial because of that, because an abuser can weaponize shame.
Make no mistake, bipolar, suicidal or whatever, this guy is a MAJOR ABUSER.