Amandathomas818
Junior Member
I live in Kansas with my husband and two sons. Me and my husband got into a fight a few nights ago, he had had too much to drink. He called me all kinds of names and I put my hands on him. He told me he was going to kill me and I called my dad for help. My dad ended up calling the police. They took my husband into custody for two nights. They set a bond of $7,500 and put a no contact order in place. Here’s my dilemma, this is the FIRST time this has ever happened between us. I am not a battered woman and he is not abusive. The police report says he was the aggressor and yet i’m The only one who put hands on him. I have tried calling the DA and recanting my false statement of him putting his hands on me, but he won’t listen. I got my husband an attorney and even he doesn’t believe me. He does say if I recant my statement it will just make things worse for my husband. We still have a no contact order, my husband has contacted a pastor for counseling and we want to do couples counseling. His attorney says he is going to try and get the no contact lifted soon. What are the odds of it actually being lifted? What can I do to help? No one will listen when I say he never touched me and i’m not afraid of him. They are threatening me with perjury if I recant. Can someone help??