What is the name of your state? Pennsylvania
(This post is kind of like two subjects in one so I'm posting it in two sectionns...)
I'm 22 years old.. lived in PA, moved to CA and got married to my husband. We married this past December. Our agreement prior to getting married was that when we had children we would move back east to be with my family. When I turned up pregnant, he refused to move!!! I came back east to get some time away and de-stress (since the end of March, it is now June) but since I've been here he will hardly talk to me or try to work ANYTHING out. He goes back and forth and plays games, one day he says he loves me and wants me to come back which I was going to and then yesterday tells me he's sending me papers for annulment. WHAT?! Can he even get an annulment? I thought he had no grounds for this.. there was no fraud on my part, I'm not underage, we clearly have had sexual relations being that I'm pregnant, he wasn't forced by me to be married, we're not related.. so what other grounds could there be? He has a 4 year old son from a previous relationship that he has joint custody of (oh, he left his son's mother after their son was born too!) Do you have any idea what may happen as far as my child and custody goes (I'm 5 months pregnant)? Remember he lives in California and I am in Pennsylvania. He is going to try and get full custody of our baby. I live with my parents and I'm not currently working (due to pregnancy) and he claims they'll give him custody because he has his own place and a job. Do you know if he will have to come here for family court dates or will I have to go to California? Sorry this is so long but I'm totally clueless and worried... my first child and I'm so worried about everything.. please help.What is the name of your state?
(This post is kind of like two subjects in one so I'm posting it in two sectionns...)
I'm 22 years old.. lived in PA, moved to CA and got married to my husband. We married this past December. Our agreement prior to getting married was that when we had children we would move back east to be with my family. When I turned up pregnant, he refused to move!!! I came back east to get some time away and de-stress (since the end of March, it is now June) but since I've been here he will hardly talk to me or try to work ANYTHING out. He goes back and forth and plays games, one day he says he loves me and wants me to come back which I was going to and then yesterday tells me he's sending me papers for annulment. WHAT?! Can he even get an annulment? I thought he had no grounds for this.. there was no fraud on my part, I'm not underage, we clearly have had sexual relations being that I'm pregnant, he wasn't forced by me to be married, we're not related.. so what other grounds could there be? He has a 4 year old son from a previous relationship that he has joint custody of (oh, he left his son's mother after their son was born too!) Do you have any idea what may happen as far as my child and custody goes (I'm 5 months pregnant)? Remember he lives in California and I am in Pennsylvania. He is going to try and get full custody of our baby. I live with my parents and I'm not currently working (due to pregnancy) and he claims they'll give him custody because he has his own place and a job. Do you know if he will have to come here for family court dates or will I have to go to California? Sorry this is so long but I'm totally clueless and worried... my first child and I'm so worried about everything.. please help.What is the name of your state?