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mdonovin

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What is the name of your state? NJ

Why is it so many divorced women publicly state they are a

Single MOM....???

i never introduce myself as s single Dad? I am divorced DAD

boy that bugs me that a woman proactivley destroys the nuclear family by filing for divorce and then insinuates she is going it alone?
This puts all of us Dads in a bad place i think
and it continues to perpetuate the myth of "the deadbeat Dad"

I was talkng to a 10 yr old kid a week before school started and i asked
him about going back to school..was he happy? Was he looking forward to it?


his answer was a great life lesson that we all should think about it

he said

"it is what it is"​

nothing more...i was stunned to see his philosophy on events and circumstances....

Divorced Moms
you are what you are ​

and you are not a single Mom, you are a divorced Mom...
you chose divorce not me !

We pay our child support and do the right thing...as divorced Dads

It is what it is...

thnx-just something i needed to share...(smile)

my apologies to the true single Moms out there...i give you all the credit in the
world..i am speaking to the other women-they know who they are!

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What is the name of your state?
 


Just Blue

Just Blue

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mdonovin said:
What is the name of your state? NJ

Why is it so many divorced women publicly state they are a

Single MOM....???

i never introduce myself as s single Dad? I am divorced DAD

boy that bugs me that a woman proactivley destroys the nuclear family by filing for divorce and then insinuates she is going it alone?
This puts all of us Dads in a bad place i think
and it continues to perpetuate the myth of "the deadbeat Dad"

I was talkng to a 10 yr old kid a week before school started and i asked
him about going back to school..was he happy? Was he looking forward to it?


his answer was a great life lesson that we all should think about it

he said

"it is what it is"​

nothing more...i was stunned to see his philosophy on events and circumstances....

Divorced Moms
you are what you are ​

and you are not a single Mom, you are a divorced Mom...
you chose divorce not me !

We pay our child support and do the right thing...as divorced Dads

It is what it is...

thnx-just something i needed to share...(smile)

my apologies to the true single Moms out there...i give you all the credit in the
world..i am speaking to the other women-they know who they are!

<br>
What is the name of your state?
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Gee...Wonder why she divorced you....:rolleyes:
 
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mdonovin

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its not that simple

are you a divorced Dad?

Are you paying child support and being there for your kids?

Who filed for divorce?

or are you a divorced Mom? that filed for divorce?

to some extent I agree whats the big deal...?
i never understood the whole PC world we live in today anyway

but me being Caucasian I have never felt prejudice like a black man might
except for now and it sucks.

BTW- IMHO what i feel is what makes it prejudicial
 
CJane

CJane

Senior Member
moburkes said:
What does being a single mom have to do with remarriage?

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A 'DIVORCED' mom could also be a 'REMARRIED' mom. But a 'SINGLE' mom can't be.

I think that it's possible OP hears 'single mom' in a whiny tone of voice and believes that women who say that they're single moms are somehow playing the victim. Of course, he's wrong, and that's an incredibly narrow-minded viewpoint, but I'll bet it's also true.
 
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