divorce

[ellshalf1]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? north carolina
what are the requirments for self serving papers on your spouse?

 

[mistoffolees]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? north carolina
what are the requirments for self serving papers on your spouse?

I would not recommend that you serve the papers yourself. First, there's the risk of a violent response. Second, if he says that you never served the papers, it's your word against his.

It's not expensive to have the papers properly served.

 

[Ohiogal]

She cannot serve the papers. Parties cannot serve -- it would not be proper service. To find out how to properly serve she needs to read the local rules and rules of civil procedure.