This is really appalling. I'm forwarding this thread to the moderator and asking to have the potentially damaging posts removed. I suggest that others do the same. Just because you CAN be blunt on a legal forum doesn't mean that you SHOULD be blunt in this situation. Lya, I really just can't believe that you'd use take advantage of this opportunity to make a shocking and hurtful statement for "impact". And really, ecmst12, you should be ashamed for backing her up.
Not only have I experienced losing an infant, I am coming from a point of experience in the field; I have a PhD in Human Biology, and I’m a molecular biologist by trade. I'm sorry to say that your opinion as pediatric nurse is incorrect. You are wrong that this would normally be considered a miscarriage—there is no such think as a miscarriage after 20 weeks gestation. If a baby passes away in utero after 20 weeks it is considered a stillbirth, and if early labor cannot be stopped at 20 weeks and a baby is born living, it is a live baby. No NICU nurse would ever refer to her patient as “the fetus on the ventilator in room 3”.
You are UTTERLY wrong in saying that a baby this age "lacks skin". Seriously, are you lying about having experience as a nurse? Skin is one of the earliest organs formed, and at 22.5 weeks a baby's skin, while thin and delicate, has been completely formed for several weeks and is coated for protection with a waxy substance called vernix. More importantly, f you had even cared to follow the timeline, OP's son with the ant bites was about 28 weeks old when he died. He had already been alive for 5 weeks. A baby who makes it to the 27.5 week period has a 90 percent survival rate, 80-85% if he or she is born as a multiple. For an example of what a premature baby outside of the womb looks like at this age, follow one of these links:
www.askanob.com/images/349_premature_baby.jpg
www.miraclebabyanastasia.com/9-1-05AnastasiaQ.JPG
A far as what implications any of your bogus information might have in regards to OP’s case, you obviously haven’t even correctly comprehended the reason for his post in the first place. OP never asked about his chances at winning a medical malpractice suit. In fact, he didn’t mention pursuing wrongful death charges or negligence charges at all.
All he asked was what he could do to prevent this from happening to his only remaining son, specifically in regard to the practice of allowing food and drink in the NICU, and was wondering about the possibility of overriding his insurance company in the matter of transferring his son to another hospital.
So tell me, how does your insistence that his son is an underdeveloped fetus lacking skin and bound to die relate to the case he’s making for a “no food & drink in the ICU” policy and his desire to transfer to a more trusted hospital?