he filed contempt?

[lilmansmom]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

I had to reschedule my ex's supervised visit again because my mom (his supervisor) couldn't get the time off work. I have also been getting many restricted phone calls which I believe are either his "wife" doing or he is doing it so i changed my number and didn't give him it. He states in the court papers he can't ever get a hold of me but i have his number so how could that get me in trouble if i can contact him? He also has my mom and grandma's number if it was really an emergency. How can he put me in contempt if my mom couldn't get off work and because i am getting restricted calls and changed my number?

 

[stealth2]

'Bout time he took a step to save the child.

 

[Silverplum]

Trolling again?

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

I had to reschedule my ex's supervised visit again because my mom (his supervisor) couldn't get the time off work. I have also been getting many restricted phone calls which I believe are either his "wife" doing or he is doing it so i changed my number and didn't give him it. He states in the court papers he can't ever get a hold of me but i have his number so how could that get me in trouble if i can contact him? He also has my mom and grandma's number if it was really an emergency. How can he put me in contempt if my mom couldn't get off work and because i am getting restricted calls and changed my number?

 

[Ohiogal]

What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?

I had to reschedule my ex's supervised visit again because my mom (his supervisor) couldn't get the time off work. I have also been getting many restricted phone calls which I believe are either his "wife" doing or he is doing it so i changed my number and didn't give him it. He states in the court papers he can't ever get a hold of me but i have his number so how could that get me in trouble if i can contact him? He also has my mom and grandma's number if it was really an emergency. How can he put me in contempt if my mom couldn't get off work and because i am getting restricted calls and changed my number?

Hopefully going to jail will make you grow up. He didn't put you in contempt -- YOU PUT YOURSELF there by refusing to allow anyone else to supervise the visits on his court ordered day. And he is entitled to YOUR phone number. Would you kindly go get your tubes tied or otherwise sterilized?

 

[lilmansmom]

'Bout time he took a step to save the child.

he doesnt have to save anyone my child is well protected and good, i havent filed contempt so how can he serve these papers?

 

[lilmansmom]

Hopefully going to jail will make you grow up. He didn't put you in contempt -- YOU PUT YOURSELF there by refusing to allow anyone else to supervise the visits on his court ordered day. And he is entitled to YOUR phone number. Would you kindly go get your tubes tied or otherwise sterilized?

i offered my grandma and boyfriend but he won't agree thats why we agreed to my mom doing it

 

[stealth2]

he doesnt have to save anyone my child is well protected and good, i havent filed contempt so how can he serve these papers?

The usual ways.

 

[mariasusa]

i offered my grandma and boyfriend but he won't agree thats why we agreed to my mom doing it

Your not following the court order. They are not YOUR orders, but the court orders.

Honestly? (if your not a troll) You are doing your child such a diservice. Your setting your child up to very possibly have more visitation times with dad. In thwarting dads ability to have his supervised visits, your child doesn't get to get used to dad. Your child is the only one who is going to get hurt here.

 

[lilmansmom]

Your not following the court order. They are not YOUR orders, but the court orders.

Honestly? (if your not a troll) You are doing your child such a diservice. Your setting your child up to very possibly have more visitation times with dad. In thwarting dads ability to have his supervised visits, your child doesn't get to get used to dad. Your child is the only one who is going to get hurt here.

no because my child doesnt even want to go or see his dad like i stated in previous threads, and it states it has to be someone we agree to, i cant help that my mom works

 

[stealth2]

no because my child doesnt even want to go or see his dad like i stated in previous threads, and it states it has to be someone we agree to, i cant help that my mom works

I really think you are in need of some serious psychological help.

 

[Ohiogal]

no because my child doesnt even want to go or see his dad like i stated in previous threads, and it states it has to be someone we agree to, i cant help that my mom works

Yes you can help that your child doesn't want to go see his father. How? By quitting being a viper/black widow and actually grow up. You liked him enough to spread your legs and tumble into bed with him at least once so you should have enough maturity to want your child to know his father.

 

[Antigone*]

I am glad to hear that dad stepped up and filed.

Now, who wants to bet on how many pages this thread will reach.

My bet is six.

 

[mariasusa]

no because my child doesnt even want to go or see his dad like i stated in previous threads, and it states it has to be someone we agree to, i cant help that my mom works

Your child doesn't write the court order, the court does. Child has no say.

You know, we all know that you have NOT cooperated with dad. The court gave several options for a superviser and you will only allow your mom. And you already admitted you will only allow your mom because she is prepared to say bad things about dad with child.

It will play out in court. I also am glad dad filed. I don't know why you even come back here. You follow NO one's advice. Either open up your head and try to look at this process differently, or be prepared to have an emotionally scarred child. I'm not sure there is an in between here.

 

[Silverplum]

I am glad to hear that dad stepped up and filed.

Now, who wants to bet on how many pages this thread will reach.

My bet is six.

My bet is seven pages.

And, beginning with page 2, I don't know WHY these trolls are "entertained" by smart people who know it's pointless.

 

[InfantCustody]

Does dad have an attorney? Do you?

I have given you multiple suggestions on how to decrease your sons anxiety and foster his relationship with his father. You don't want to hear it. I could safely wager money on the fact you didn't even try it.

If you denied your son's father his supervised time, you are in contempt. If it isn't black and white contempt, then what is going to happen is this:

Dad goes to court and says "She didn't have her mom available for my supervised time. I couldn't see my son."

You say "She was working and couldn't be available and he wouldn't agree on anyone else."

The judge says "You are both petulant children. Since you can't make supervised visitation work, father's visitation will be unsupervised from here on out."

See how that worked? You ultimately are screwing things up for your own child with your games.

Oh wait, better yet, you are right. Your ex is a scum. You and you alone are right. Your ex should go away and you should have all the rights. You should be the one to control everything. He should just write you a check and be banned from communicating with you or his child.

There. You heard what you want to hear. Happy now? Good, so go away.