What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Hey guys, thanks for reading this.
I'm sure lots of people come here showing themselves in a finer light than what happened, but I need true advice so I'll try to give the facts as best and true as I know.
So basically I am being charged with DUI.
Here are the circumstances:
I was at a restaurant with a friend for about 4 hours, we just drank. I spent about $40 on alcohol, half on my friend.
My intention was to drink some, then use the rest of the time to sober up, then get a ride home.
I know what buzzed feels like, I know what drunk feels like, and I did not feel either whatsoever when the following happened.
My friend and I left, called his father to pick us up, while waiting I decided to move my car from a timed parking space to another parking space in the same mall parking lot.
I looked to make sure no one was behind me, saw someone and kind of argued with him to move, and put the car in drive instead of reverse and bumped the parking sign in front of me. I didn't see any damage to pole, though it did knock out my headlight (which just cliped back in).
The manager of the restaurant comes out rather quickly and begins yelling at me, of course saying I'm too drunk to drive, don't drive, etc.
I argue back saying that I'm not drunk, and even so I'm not driving home, I'm just moving parking spaces.
So I move the car, our ride comes, drops me off, I chug I believe a pint of vodka, and lie down to sleep.
The reason I drink all the vodka, by the way, is because I was in an argument with my wife and don't feel like dealing with her and just wanted to sleep.
I never let her see me drink it. This is important.
About 20 to 30 minutes later, an officer comes to my door and tells me that the manager called, said I was drunk driving, and gave my plate.
I invite him in, but by then the vodka had already got to me, I'm sure enhanced by no eating all day and that I drank earlier.
Anyway I tell him I wasn't driving, I got a ride home, let him verify it with my friend.
By the time he started asking me questions and really getting into it, I was gone. I barely even remember him being there. (there were 2 other officers back and forth throughout his visit).
My wife was there so a lot of this comes from her but I was super confused, kept saying I can't believe someone could just call and say someone was drunk driving, etc.
He asked me if I drank since I got home and I said no and my wife said no (she wouldn't have seen me anyway). The only reason I can think that I said no was that I didn't want to get her mad, and also she is recovering alcoholic going to AA meetings, etc. Which is probably the main reason I don't want her to know about me drinking, especially at home.
By the way, her problem isn't related to this. I've only had drinks maybe 3 times just this year alone. And none since this DUI charge. Between this and her problem, I am disgusted with alcohol. I digress.
So about an hour and a half later, the officers do FST's (which I told them I couldn't do), also a breathalyzer. They then arrested me, took me to jail, and while there did a blood draw (which was 2 hours after the call came in).
Breathalyzer was I believe .16 and blood was .21 if I'm not mistaken.
Well at first while talking to lawyers, people, a couple of pretrials, I was thinking how could I get a charge when I was alone for that amount of time?
Anything could have happened, I could have chugged a gallon of vodka for all they know. But the more I see of this part of the system, the more I realize it's all about money.
The lawyer told me he'd try to get me reckless driving, which I couldn't believe with my circumstances I'd get ANYTHING.
The DA offered only a DUI with no community service and no enhancement for the elevated blood alcohol level.
Am I crazy in thinking this seems a little absurd?
I mean if I were some idiot that got wasted, didn't give a damn, and drove home and was pulled over, I would just be happy to get any kind of lesser deal.
I am the type of person that believes if you take a risk, you should handle the consequences gracefully.
But it seems crazy to give a DUI to someone who got a ride home AND had so much time to himself that he could have done anything that would affect his levels.
I know that drinking and driving can be had even in parking lots, but how on earth can they prove anything?
I'm about to get a DUI for projected and estimated values that were modified by drinking at home.
I know that I've read something somewhere when looking up vehicle codes that a DUI has to be witnessed by an officer.
Or a citizen's arrest. Well there's no citizen's arrest for, no damage report for a hit and run (the pole), not even a charge for it.
Of course I spoke to my lawyer about all this, but in all honesty he seems like any other lawyer.
Doesn't care, just happy to have his money and deal with me as little as possible.
And believe me, I searched a lot before I settled on what is probably one of the best around here.
Just to illustrate that point, he called me (returning my call, he has never called me on his own initiative) to let me know he talked one on one with the DA to ask for leniency, basically saying that yeah I was wasted when I left the restaurant but I lost my job and can't I get a break?
I never told him that I was drunk when I left and what kind of lawyer goes on his own and tells the other side "yeah my client is guilty but cut him a deal"???
Anyway, I was thinking of telling them (tomorrow, ha) that I don't want their deal, I will represent myself and retain the public defender as my assistant.
What do you guys think, honestly?
I've lost my job, denied unemployment, a few other things that just went completely against me.
Do I really need more punishment for something that they can't even be completely sure that I've done?
A side note: it really irks me about the deal they offered. I have a friend and former co-worker officer that spoke to me very candidly after this happened.
His underage (i.e. no tolerance) daughter was arrested less than a year ago for DUI. She was pulled over, very drunk, and underage. He told me they offered her a reckless driving.
Now let's say I was just utterly wasted when this happened. I moved parking spots and got a ride home. Yet I'm about to get far worse than someone who did far more than me? Anyway, just wanted to rant about that.
By the way, I know this is just a forum, I'm just looking for advice from people who have been around a while and maybe enlighten me to something I haven't thought of.
Hey guys, thanks for reading this.
I'm sure lots of people come here showing themselves in a finer light than what happened, but I need true advice so I'll try to give the facts as best and true as I know.
So basically I am being charged with DUI.
Here are the circumstances:
I was at a restaurant with a friend for about 4 hours, we just drank. I spent about $40 on alcohol, half on my friend.
My intention was to drink some, then use the rest of the time to sober up, then get a ride home.
I know what buzzed feels like, I know what drunk feels like, and I did not feel either whatsoever when the following happened.
My friend and I left, called his father to pick us up, while waiting I decided to move my car from a timed parking space to another parking space in the same mall parking lot.
I looked to make sure no one was behind me, saw someone and kind of argued with him to move, and put the car in drive instead of reverse and bumped the parking sign in front of me. I didn't see any damage to pole, though it did knock out my headlight (which just cliped back in).
The manager of the restaurant comes out rather quickly and begins yelling at me, of course saying I'm too drunk to drive, don't drive, etc.
I argue back saying that I'm not drunk, and even so I'm not driving home, I'm just moving parking spaces.
So I move the car, our ride comes, drops me off, I chug I believe a pint of vodka, and lie down to sleep.
The reason I drink all the vodka, by the way, is because I was in an argument with my wife and don't feel like dealing with her and just wanted to sleep.
I never let her see me drink it. This is important.
About 20 to 30 minutes later, an officer comes to my door and tells me that the manager called, said I was drunk driving, and gave my plate.
I invite him in, but by then the vodka had already got to me, I'm sure enhanced by no eating all day and that I drank earlier.
Anyway I tell him I wasn't driving, I got a ride home, let him verify it with my friend.
By the time he started asking me questions and really getting into it, I was gone. I barely even remember him being there. (there were 2 other officers back and forth throughout his visit).
My wife was there so a lot of this comes from her but I was super confused, kept saying I can't believe someone could just call and say someone was drunk driving, etc.
He asked me if I drank since I got home and I said no and my wife said no (she wouldn't have seen me anyway). The only reason I can think that I said no was that I didn't want to get her mad, and also she is recovering alcoholic going to AA meetings, etc. Which is probably the main reason I don't want her to know about me drinking, especially at home.
By the way, her problem isn't related to this. I've only had drinks maybe 3 times just this year alone. And none since this DUI charge. Between this and her problem, I am disgusted with alcohol. I digress.
So about an hour and a half later, the officers do FST's (which I told them I couldn't do), also a breathalyzer. They then arrested me, took me to jail, and while there did a blood draw (which was 2 hours after the call came in).
Breathalyzer was I believe .16 and blood was .21 if I'm not mistaken.
Well at first while talking to lawyers, people, a couple of pretrials, I was thinking how could I get a charge when I was alone for that amount of time?
Anything could have happened, I could have chugged a gallon of vodka for all they know. But the more I see of this part of the system, the more I realize it's all about money.
The lawyer told me he'd try to get me reckless driving, which I couldn't believe with my circumstances I'd get ANYTHING.
The DA offered only a DUI with no community service and no enhancement for the elevated blood alcohol level.
Am I crazy in thinking this seems a little absurd?
I mean if I were some idiot that got wasted, didn't give a damn, and drove home and was pulled over, I would just be happy to get any kind of lesser deal.
I am the type of person that believes if you take a risk, you should handle the consequences gracefully.
But it seems crazy to give a DUI to someone who got a ride home AND had so much time to himself that he could have done anything that would affect his levels.
I know that drinking and driving can be had even in parking lots, but how on earth can they prove anything?
I'm about to get a DUI for projected and estimated values that were modified by drinking at home.
I know that I've read something somewhere when looking up vehicle codes that a DUI has to be witnessed by an officer.
Or a citizen's arrest. Well there's no citizen's arrest for, no damage report for a hit and run (the pole), not even a charge for it.
Of course I spoke to my lawyer about all this, but in all honesty he seems like any other lawyer.
Doesn't care, just happy to have his money and deal with me as little as possible.
And believe me, I searched a lot before I settled on what is probably one of the best around here.
Just to illustrate that point, he called me (returning my call, he has never called me on his own initiative) to let me know he talked one on one with the DA to ask for leniency, basically saying that yeah I was wasted when I left the restaurant but I lost my job and can't I get a break?
I never told him that I was drunk when I left and what kind of lawyer goes on his own and tells the other side "yeah my client is guilty but cut him a deal"???
Anyway, I was thinking of telling them (tomorrow, ha) that I don't want their deal, I will represent myself and retain the public defender as my assistant.
What do you guys think, honestly?
I've lost my job, denied unemployment, a few other things that just went completely against me.
Do I really need more punishment for something that they can't even be completely sure that I've done?
A side note: it really irks me about the deal they offered. I have a friend and former co-worker officer that spoke to me very candidly after this happened.
His underage (i.e. no tolerance) daughter was arrested less than a year ago for DUI. She was pulled over, very drunk, and underage. He told me they offered her a reckless driving.
Now let's say I was just utterly wasted when this happened. I moved parking spots and got a ride home. Yet I'm about to get far worse than someone who did far more than me? Anyway, just wanted to rant about that.
By the way, I know this is just a forum, I'm just looking for advice from people who have been around a while and maybe enlighten me to something I haven't thought of.