You, indeed, are not compelled to do anything contrary to your court order.
Refusing to work with Dad, who would presumably provide transportation in the form of an airline ticket, is contrary to your duty as the custodial parent to foster and facilitate the relationship between NCP and child, as OG stated in post #2.
That Dad moved before he had a job doesn't mean he has nowhere to live and won't have means to feed and shelter his child on his time.
That Dad has an open warrant may be relevant. Why is it now an issue when it wasn't before?
Moving isn't abandonment. The child is in the care of a (presumably) capable parent, not abandoned.
I'll leave judgment to others. Those are the facts.
Does this mean you're going to stop buying tampons for your daughter because you read online that you can save money and use moss instead? Just like they used to do eons ago?
Sheesh. Where was this information twenty years ago? I could have saved a small fortune.