Richard 545
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I thank you all for your input. I am also fully aware of how forums work. @67 years old, I have seen my share. I am fully convinced that my attempts to explain the situation in the hope that someone will have incite as to a possible path to proceed may or may not be understood by those reading it from the other end. Last night I went to one of those "Internet" attorny's and for $38 I was told "Maybe". $7.80 per letter didn't seem like an economical way of deciding what the best course of action might be. So I am here. I have no dog in this fight other than I told my brother that I would do to the best of my ability act as his PR, and then his Exec. I am not a divisee in the will or a beneficiary in any way. In Oregon, PR and Exec are two completely different animals. PR is simply who is nominated in the will by the deceased to address the affairs of the estate. Not until the PR is recognized by the court, and issued the letter of Testamentary, does the PR become the Exec. There are many old wives tales concerning the idea that a PR and an Exec are one and the same. Absolutely not true in many instances. However, the belief by many that it is true has allowed me to do much more with the CLUSTER I found myself in when addressing my brothers estate after a sudden death than I would have otherwise been able to do without spending a fortune in monies that belong to his heirs; not me.
Having said that, I had no idea concerning Set-off. I am darn sure, as this has unfolded, that the Credit union certainly did. Lenders have more attorney's than God.
They say that you don't know what you don't know. What I am trying to explain here is that If they had the authority to do what they did, why didn't they just do it? Why did they purport to accept the freeze letter knowing I didn't have any authority except to give them cover as to denying others to get paid from their auto pay provisions? Why would they go through the motions except to insure as much as they could that they would get maximum benefit for what they knew they were going to do. If they had a SOUD provision, why the charade. Why would they allow me access to his online account statements by changing the phone number access to my phone number unless they wanted to insure that I could see that the accounts were stable, while running up late fees that did not show up on the statements until the Son I subordinated the PR status to got the LOT from the court 3 days ago and all of a sudden, the accounts were emptied and he was told that they comendered the funds.
As has been said countless times in the 600 or so threads I have reviewed here, not one of which addresses anything even close to this situation, it isn't or may not be worth persuing, well maybe the credit union knows it too. How many of you throughout your experiences have seen people spend thousands to have the perp when it was all over say, "OOPS, I screwed up. Here is your $100 back. Sorry".
I am not asking for legal advice here. They say the legal advice you get is worth every penny of you paid for it. I simply would like to know whether any one has ever seen something like this before. What I read about the Credit Card exemption to the right of set off, tells me that there is something wrong here. Otherwise, if the credit union could have done this in Dec, they would have. If they were on autopay, they would not stop it for their own account based on a letter that had absolutely no power in law. But they did. Why go through the gyrations of conceling the interest accruals on an account that they could have commendered any time they wanted? Why would they pay someone and then when called on it, put it back in? If someone here has any ideas, please state. If someone wants to say as I have seen here probably 100 times, "You didn't give enough information", please state what information might be missing. THATwould be helpful. If you need more info, do you know what you need or is it just a cop out? I am here because I need some help. I am trying to help the son I turned this all over to after thinking I had done all the ground work to allow him a smooth conclusion. This is not my first Rodeo here. I am still working an estate of my other brother who was killed by a drunk driver 2 months before this one died. The kids in that situation have got things so screwed up, they may just lose everything.
So please,; If you have some relevant input, I would certainly appreciate it. If your intent is to simply see how many posts you can do in a night, there are many others on this forum who might appreciate that. Thank you for your input.
Having said that, I had no idea concerning Set-off. I am darn sure, as this has unfolded, that the Credit union certainly did. Lenders have more attorney's than God.
They say that you don't know what you don't know. What I am trying to explain here is that If they had the authority to do what they did, why didn't they just do it? Why did they purport to accept the freeze letter knowing I didn't have any authority except to give them cover as to denying others to get paid from their auto pay provisions? Why would they go through the motions except to insure as much as they could that they would get maximum benefit for what they knew they were going to do. If they had a SOUD provision, why the charade. Why would they allow me access to his online account statements by changing the phone number access to my phone number unless they wanted to insure that I could see that the accounts were stable, while running up late fees that did not show up on the statements until the Son I subordinated the PR status to got the LOT from the court 3 days ago and all of a sudden, the accounts were emptied and he was told that they comendered the funds.
As has been said countless times in the 600 or so threads I have reviewed here, not one of which addresses anything even close to this situation, it isn't or may not be worth persuing, well maybe the credit union knows it too. How many of you throughout your experiences have seen people spend thousands to have the perp when it was all over say, "OOPS, I screwed up. Here is your $100 back. Sorry".
I am not asking for legal advice here. They say the legal advice you get is worth every penny of you paid for it. I simply would like to know whether any one has ever seen something like this before. What I read about the Credit Card exemption to the right of set off, tells me that there is something wrong here. Otherwise, if the credit union could have done this in Dec, they would have. If they were on autopay, they would not stop it for their own account based on a letter that had absolutely no power in law. But they did. Why go through the gyrations of conceling the interest accruals on an account that they could have commendered any time they wanted? Why would they pay someone and then when called on it, put it back in? If someone here has any ideas, please state. If someone wants to say as I have seen here probably 100 times, "You didn't give enough information", please state what information might be missing. THATwould be helpful. If you need more info, do you know what you need or is it just a cop out? I am here because I need some help. I am trying to help the son I turned this all over to after thinking I had done all the ground work to allow him a smooth conclusion. This is not my first Rodeo here. I am still working an estate of my other brother who was killed by a drunk driver 2 months before this one died. The kids in that situation have got things so screwed up, they may just lose everything.
So please,; If you have some relevant input, I would certainly appreciate it. If your intent is to simply see how many posts you can do in a night, there are many others on this forum who might appreciate that. Thank you for your input.