Victoria22
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Hi, Im a 22 year old with a 4 month old daughter. I have split with her dad 6 months ago due to Threatening behaviour towards me. I had to leave because i didn't want him to like that towards our daughter. After having her i made the mistake with getting back with him but as abusive people usually cant change so it started again. I had to leave him because i now had my daughter to think about. So after that he decided to come meet me at a cafe every sunday near where i live, unfortunately, he started manipulating me and saying everything that had happened was all my fault so i started to believe it, i then became miserable because of it so i spoke out and told my close ones what was happening. So i told him i no longer wanted to see or speak to him. I told him i would find supervised contact so he could see his daughter if he wanted to. I contacted my health visitor who is in process of trying to organise it for me. I had recently blocked him off all social media but, he found a way in contacting me by using his friends facebook account and messaging of off theirs, however again he was very threatening told me to sort out contact as soon as but in a nasty way. i felt like i had to respond so i did but i realise now i shouldn't have because it feeds him. Please could i have advice on what to do next as it really upsets me he does this to me. He should know better as he is supposed to be a father. Please help