Elizabeth92
Member
Hello I live in Tennessee.
My now boyfriend, is going through a divorce with his soon to be ex wife and there have been multiple issues concerning the children. I am asking for feedback/advice on this due to my name being put in their divorce papers by soon to be ex wife. She filed for divorce first and put in the temporary papers that I am not allowed to be around her children when they are in their fathers custody. I have no criminal record, I have never been in any sort of trouble with law enforcement (other than a speeding ticket) and have raised a child myself and constantly have had a job. I know those things probably do not make much of a difference but I wanted to lay them out there. I am trying to understand how she can do that to me with no grounds. However, she will not allow me around her children but she already has a boyfriend who is living with her who has 6-7 kids that he does not have custody of and is an “in and out” (mainly out) type of father. I know that may not matter but, again, just trying to understand how that is ok but my name is in the papers saying I cannot be around the children when they’re in the custody of their father yet the mother has already moved a new man into her house and has him around the kids daily. Also, their divorce has not even went to mediation yet or had it’s first official hearing other than her getting the temporary papers signed off on.
What legal action can be taken to have my name removed? Advice? Feedback?
My now boyfriend, is going through a divorce with his soon to be ex wife and there have been multiple issues concerning the children. I am asking for feedback/advice on this due to my name being put in their divorce papers by soon to be ex wife. She filed for divorce first and put in the temporary papers that I am not allowed to be around her children when they are in their fathers custody. I have no criminal record, I have never been in any sort of trouble with law enforcement (other than a speeding ticket) and have raised a child myself and constantly have had a job. I know those things probably do not make much of a difference but I wanted to lay them out there. I am trying to understand how she can do that to me with no grounds. However, she will not allow me around her children but she already has a boyfriend who is living with her who has 6-7 kids that he does not have custody of and is an “in and out” (mainly out) type of father. I know that may not matter but, again, just trying to understand how that is ok but my name is in the papers saying I cannot be around the children when they’re in the custody of their father yet the mother has already moved a new man into her house and has him around the kids daily. Also, their divorce has not even went to mediation yet or had it’s first official hearing other than her getting the temporary papers signed off on.
What legal action can be taken to have my name removed? Advice? Feedback?