What is the name of your state? Wisconsin
I was engaged and living with my girlfriend for 12 years, we had 3 kids together, she became a stay at home mom after our first son was born because it didn't make sense for her to work as childcare ate up her entire check plus some of mine. So I've been the sole income and sole provider. Her and the kids qualified for state insurance, but i had insurance through my work. I recently moved out and we split up. We are trying to come to terms on agreeing amicable but she keeps throwing in my face that I would have to not only give her child support (29%) but also spousal maintenance because she stayed home and took care of our kids and didn't work this entire time. AND i would have to pay back all of the past 12 years of medical expenses for the kids. I read something somewhere where if the mom had badgercare before the kids were born, then the father would not be liable. But i don't know how accurate that is. So if we cannot be amicable and come up with a decision, what would happen to me in the court systems in regards to what id pay besides child support
I was engaged and living with my girlfriend for 12 years, we had 3 kids together, she became a stay at home mom after our first son was born because it didn't make sense for her to work as childcare ate up her entire check plus some of mine. So I've been the sole income and sole provider. Her and the kids qualified for state insurance, but i had insurance through my work. I recently moved out and we split up. We are trying to come to terms on agreeing amicable but she keeps throwing in my face that I would have to not only give her child support (29%) but also spousal maintenance because she stayed home and took care of our kids and didn't work this entire time. AND i would have to pay back all of the past 12 years of medical expenses for the kids. I read something somewhere where if the mom had badgercare before the kids were born, then the father would not be liable. But i don't know how accurate that is. So if we cannot be amicable and come up with a decision, what would happen to me in the court systems in regards to what id pay besides child support