There is a legal definition of discrimination, and there is the non-legal, colloquial definition.
For the purposes of a legal action, based on illegal discrimination, the party with the complaint has to be able to show that they are a member of protected class, as defined by the law.
Your resistance to sensibly discuss things seem to indicate that a desert island would better suit you, or an isolated oasis in the desert.
Are you suggesting that a person who desire to sue the HOA for discrimination if a a streetlight is removed on their street has to be a member of a racial, gender, etc., protected class?