Asking for your address is a real no-no since there is a restraining order. He should be having his attorney arranging to serve you via your attorney. However, if the police don't consider it to be a violation, there isn't much you can do about it.
WRONG. Complaints for divorce need served DIRECTLY to the party. He didn't ask her for her address. He asked his friends. I really wish you wouldn't post without having a clue how court works.
He is attempting to talk someone into giving him her address. It is not appropriate for him to solicit her address.
It is no different than it would have been looking it up in the phone book back in the day.
You are wrong.
No, she advised keeping that information away from him. There has been need for some communication in the last three months and any of those questions have been sent to our individual attorney who then forwards them to the other's attorney with an answer. And if he did show up to serve me those papers (if I'm understanding you saying he'd have to serve me directly- or is via messenger?), he'd immediately be taken away for violation of the no contact order. Alternatively, we will be seeing each other in court in 21 days and I understood that was another for serving me. No?
He wouldn't show up to serve you the papers - the process server would.
Hopefully he would not try to show up In person. People with restraining orders against themselves have been known to do foolish things.
Fair enough.
He can't serve you but YOU need served -- not your attorney. So therefore he could have you served by Sheriff or process server or in some jurisdictions by fed ex. Court is not necessarily another way of serving you.
