rachelsbass89
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
WA State.
(excuse my spelling)
At the time I was best friends with a girl that played guitar. We decided to for a band (just being girls and playing music) she always complained about wanting to kill herself and i never understood why. She introduced me to her step father who offered to give me bass lessons, i always wanted to play music so I of course said 'hell yeah'.
When I started getting lessons I realized that something was not right. I was 13 at the time. Lets just say his name was bud. Bud always said how gorgeous i was and specail. I was having problems at home and he always would let me takl about it. I thought he was my best friend. (I was 13 ok, now looking back at it, classic child molester!)
He asked me to be his girl friend, he had a way with words that you could not say no..
My mom wanted to meet him, so she did. And left her then husband for him...
I was in a 'relationship' with him at the time. He threatened my life, my families lives and his own. I was scared and told no one.
My friend then came to me one day and told me that 'bud' had taken her virginity...
I had a sleep over another time over there (i realize i should not have and am very very guilty for it!)
my other friend thought that he was cool for him getting us drunk...she also lost her virginity to him that night...
After years of abuse and secrecy I told my mom.
She didnt believe me and kicked me out at 16. Thankfully I had awesome friends and some awesome family that took care of me.
She said i didnt want her to be happy!! All I wanted was for someone to believe me and for me to be able to get out..I knew it was wrong what happened to myself and two friends..
The cops said they were going to get involved, but then I never heard from them.....
Then when I was a senior in high school one of the other girls decided to go to the cops...we were questioned at school by the detective...we wrote oute statements and audio recorded (at school with the counselor sitting there)
I was still not living at home, the detective told us that they were going to collect more evidence..
I tried to talk to as many people as I could and no one believed us...
I heard nothing for about 6 months....
I called the police office who said that they gave it to the prosecuting attorneys office..and then the prosecuting attorney said that they never got it from the police department...then i was told that i didnt even have a case started for me..but my friend did.....
I am a witness in my friends case...i saw it happen, and she saw it happen to me as well..how could she not be a witness in my case...
also I cant get any answers from teh police department at all!!!
(did i mention that 'bud' is an ex cop???? wierd huh)
I was told I have too many charcter witness's against me..
where is my file!????
I want justice, I live in a town of under 6000 and I cant seem to get any help!!
I have no idea what I can and cant do. I have asked and cant seem to get any answers!!
Im getting very VERY frustrated because I am now 19 and this has been going on for years!!
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!
WA State.
(excuse my spelling)
At the time I was best friends with a girl that played guitar. We decided to for a band (just being girls and playing music) she always complained about wanting to kill herself and i never understood why. She introduced me to her step father who offered to give me bass lessons, i always wanted to play music so I of course said 'hell yeah'.
When I started getting lessons I realized that something was not right. I was 13 at the time. Lets just say his name was bud. Bud always said how gorgeous i was and specail. I was having problems at home and he always would let me takl about it. I thought he was my best friend. (I was 13 ok, now looking back at it, classic child molester!)
He asked me to be his girl friend, he had a way with words that you could not say no..
My mom wanted to meet him, so she did. And left her then husband for him...
I was in a 'relationship' with him at the time. He threatened my life, my families lives and his own. I was scared and told no one.
My friend then came to me one day and told me that 'bud' had taken her virginity...
I had a sleep over another time over there (i realize i should not have and am very very guilty for it!)
my other friend thought that he was cool for him getting us drunk...she also lost her virginity to him that night...
After years of abuse and secrecy I told my mom.
She didnt believe me and kicked me out at 16. Thankfully I had awesome friends and some awesome family that took care of me.
She said i didnt want her to be happy!! All I wanted was for someone to believe me and for me to be able to get out..I knew it was wrong what happened to myself and two friends..
The cops said they were going to get involved, but then I never heard from them.....
Then when I was a senior in high school one of the other girls decided to go to the cops...we were questioned at school by the detective...we wrote oute statements and audio recorded (at school with the counselor sitting there)
I was still not living at home, the detective told us that they were going to collect more evidence..
I tried to talk to as many people as I could and no one believed us...
I heard nothing for about 6 months....
I called the police office who said that they gave it to the prosecuting attorneys office..and then the prosecuting attorney said that they never got it from the police department...then i was told that i didnt even have a case started for me..but my friend did.....
I am a witness in my friends case...i saw it happen, and she saw it happen to me as well..how could she not be a witness in my case...
also I cant get any answers from teh police department at all!!!
(did i mention that 'bud' is an ex cop???? wierd huh)
I was told I have too many charcter witness's against me..
where is my file!????
I want justice, I live in a town of under 6000 and I cant seem to get any help!!
I have no idea what I can and cant do. I have asked and cant seem to get any answers!!
Im getting very VERY frustrated because I am now 19 and this has been going on for years!!
PLEASE SOMEONE HELP ME!!!!