beldindaschild
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? PA
My husband who is father to three lovely adult children was contacted by an adult female who claims to be his child. My husband admitted to me that he was involved with her mother one time and while it is possible he believed she had a boyfriend at the time so it could have been anyone. For some reason or another she is convinced that her father is my husband and If what she is saying is true, it was before me and my children were not born, so I have no animosity to this woman or her claims but My husband has no interest in determining whether he is the father of this adult child and from what we understand because she is adult she cannot force him to take a paternity test. She just sent a postcard to him on father's day: Stating: Even though I may never know the truth about my existence, I do know that you are a coward for not wanting to help me determine the truth. Happy Father's day.
She is bitter that he wants nothing to do with her and claims she just wants to know the truth and has said that she "googledalert" his name and when he passes she will find out and wreak havoc to his estate to determine paternity at his death.
My questions are this? Can we file harrassment charges against this women for the postcard she sent on Father's Day. It was very insulting as my husband has been a good provider and caregiver to our 3 successful adult children.
Also, when my husband passes is there a way we can block her from making any claim to his estate or do illegitimate children who are never determined while person is alive even permitted to make a claim.
We want her to get therapy and maybe serve some jail time for harrassing and upsetting our lives. We only hear from her every few years but we want it to stop altoghether. Can we sue her in Court to make her go away. thank you.
My husband who is father to three lovely adult children was contacted by an adult female who claims to be his child. My husband admitted to me that he was involved with her mother one time and while it is possible he believed she had a boyfriend at the time so it could have been anyone. For some reason or another she is convinced that her father is my husband and If what she is saying is true, it was before me and my children were not born, so I have no animosity to this woman or her claims but My husband has no interest in determining whether he is the father of this adult child and from what we understand because she is adult she cannot force him to take a paternity test. She just sent a postcard to him on father's day: Stating: Even though I may never know the truth about my existence, I do know that you are a coward for not wanting to help me determine the truth. Happy Father's day.
She is bitter that he wants nothing to do with her and claims she just wants to know the truth and has said that she "googledalert" his name and when he passes she will find out and wreak havoc to his estate to determine paternity at his death.
My questions are this? Can we file harrassment charges against this women for the postcard she sent on Father's Day. It was very insulting as my husband has been a good provider and caregiver to our 3 successful adult children.
Also, when my husband passes is there a way we can block her from making any claim to his estate or do illegitimate children who are never determined while person is alive even permitted to make a claim.
We want her to get therapy and maybe serve some jail time for harrassing and upsetting our lives. We only hear from her every few years but we want it to stop altoghether. Can we sue her in Court to make her go away. thank you.