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Thank you!

Thank you all for your input.

And than my brother has to vacate the premises (her kids don't exactly have warm fuzzy feelings for my brother). As I mentioned somewhere in my post.... I was in a similar situation where my ex husband had two kids. I made sure i was on the deed (but i had to sign a pre nup which i did). There...

Did some digging around and found this... There is no federal gift tax on the transfer of assets to your spouse (I don't know about Hawaii). That being said there is no estate tax advantage of adding your new husband to the deed. My real question is why you would want to add your H to the deed...

I wish things were different, honestly. But this woman has said so many things that my parents have repeated to me or I have overheard her say things that only imply that she is after my brother's/family's money.

My mother, brother and I are sitting with the attorney this week and my mother is giving him a stipend for 5 years and removing him as POA. My mother is aware of his recklessness with $$ and is concerned over how the wife's deed was handled. My brother is out on the street if the wife passes...

I have no motives except that my parent's hard earned money stay with the intended. I am furious that her deed was not changed to include my brother when he's been paying the bills, making repairs and major improvements. Foolishly he never kept receipts, I did ask once. The truth is if she...

Years ago when the will was done, the lawyer added a clause that my brother can't contest or he forfeits everything.

As I have said to my mother... My brother has destroyed our relationship and probably not repairable at this point however, I feel it necessary to protect him from ending up in the streets. I have done some digging. They got married in 2008. He moved into her house. In 2011, she changed her deed...

So I have spoken to the lawyer and he tells me different and than my mom tells me a different story. She is so confused at this point. She wants my brother there so he knows that the will is going back to a stipend for him. So clearly she has no idea what she's doing at this point. He was never...

We are returning the will to its original state. My brother was the one that was hounding my mother to change things and the wife was likely after my brother to do so. For all to see/read here... he's getting his entire share but it'll be a test to see if she sticks around for those 5 years. Not...

Unfortunately my mother is afraid to do anything like this because of anxiety. She used to think there were cameras in the ceiling watching her and taking photos of her credit cards if she took them out. She knows I'm watching out for my brother and she wants me present at all times.

Since going Since this has all come to light and I found out what happened, I have gone back and forth with my brother and his wife. As I get information, i relay back to my mother. She is starting to see what really happened. My brother said he signed a paper giving his POA. My mother doesn't...

My mom is changing things back to the way it was and we have an appointment next week. My mom and I are going back to the attorney to bring it back to the original way. It was a will that dictated the distribution via stipen which was than later absorbed into an irrevocable house trust where I...