Recent content by gettingtired45

I will consider that if need be. TY.

I got it. Clear.

We've been co-parenting fine for almost 3 years now, but i see what youre saying.

Sure, if they made statements implying something they knew nothing about.

Thank you all for your comments. Much appreciated.

I get it. And id correct them as ive done you.

I understand. I wouldnt know and im not going to ask the girls. But if she were, i respect her judgement. Especially if shes serious with the guy. I agree. It is. Its drainig as hell on me, but i suck it up. I just feel that shes trying to control everything as usual. Its been months. My girls...

A few months ago, she took the kids on a play date with another man and his 2 kids. I didnt know about it until one of my daughters accidentally let it lip out when i asked what they did over the weekend, lol. He wasnt a boyfriend though. They were interested in each other/had an attraction, but...

Please dont do that. I didnt mention all aspects of my current relationship, but please dont assume we are bed buddies if you dont know the full dynamic. Thanks in advance.

Although separated, you are correct. The relationship IS finished, just not technically, so again, youre correct. I dont feel im being a bad parental example overall(maybe in the marriage/separation/divorce aspect), but respect your opinion.

I probably shouldt have said "cant" Honestly, i think shes just mad because the girls like her. Her way of trying to control the situation imo. You may be right though. I do not want to count out what you said about inappropriate action/location.

They would get to my home the same way i get to theirs. Bus and train. Im starting to wonder if youre being a bit biased in some of the replies. Inconvenience on mom? Shed travel after work JUST like i travel after work. Everything would actually be equal if we did it that way. Im actually...

I understand you have your opinion and i respect that. Im seeking help with my current situation though. The kids know her and ask to speak with her. Thats already done and established. You "replied" to the question i asked, but didnt answer.

I understand how it can be confusing and i dont disagree. MY children understand and have accepted that fact that mommy and daddy are no longer "together". I do understand what youre saying though. I appreciate all input.

Im confused now. What isnt about the kids? They like her. They want to talk to her. I allow it. We do homework, play games, watch tv/movies, showered and pj's on. When all responsibilities are done, they are allowed to talk. Sorry, but im a bit confused by your statement.