Recent content by hire21618

I do not think he will actually set up visitation. He was ordered to go through a facility during our provisional orders and flat out refused, at one point even stating he was going to ask the judge to sign his rights away. When we went to the final hearing he stated it was unfair that he had to...

Thank you - I wondered if it was worth it since the order addresses what happens if she can't supervise. The judge actually made the final order on her own, so it was very up in the air until she issued the final decree. At that time he had not had visitation for 4 months. I did discuss it with...

What is the name of your state? Indiana EDIT TO ADD: Original decree was signed May 26, 2021 This might be long - my apologies. My ex husband currently has supervised visitation by his mother per the Indiana Parenting Time Guidelines. After the court order, he only exercised seeing them a...

As far as I know she's okay to drive. We exchange at a halfway point and she is almost always the one driving. I think mainly my issues are the typical bitterness and tension that comes with a divorce and more so with him vs his mom. I only saw his mom maybe 4-5 times over the course of our 5...

I do but it sounds like it's best to let it go. Thank you all for the advice!

nothing at all in the order about exchanges. Just that he gets supervised visitation per the parenting time guidelines, and if his mom can’t supervise then it goes through a facility and we split the costs

just for the exchange. He states he’s working over and might not make it in time

Indiana my ex has supervised visitation. Normally his mom supervises. He just informed me that he will not be present at pick up exchange for next visit. Am I required to release the kids to his mom without him, or can I postpone the exchange until he can be present?

I The coworker I assume made the accusation also went around saying coworker who also got tested and I were in a relationship. There's also a no fraternization policy. I assumed when we were called down this is what would be addressed, and was completely blindsided by the allegation of drug...

It is a medical practice. We are both patients as well. We were taken to an outside company for the actual testing. I was not told his results, but it's pretty obvious they were positive as I was asked to come back and he was not as of yet.

Thank you!

State of IN. Employed at a 3 location office with around 55 employees, no HR department. Last week our practice admin and office manager called me and another employee down for a meeting. They said someone had accused both of us of using drugs during work functions. They were taking us to be...

I updated my post. I didn't see that officially makes it sound like the judge signed when I first posted. Mom signed Friday, dad signed Monday and it was filed Monday.

Just wanted to provide an update per Blue's suggestion! Mom started a relationship again with her husband, who refuses to comply with DCS. Mom jumps from job to job, and has not progressed passed supervised visits with any of the kids after 1.5 years. We found out in July that my stepdaughter...

Thank you. I agree with that advice; we're working hard on stability. The adoption was just something we're just discussing as a possibility down the line, and I just wanted some more information. I really hope the mom is able to improve her life for the sake of her kids.