Recent content by Jamackle86

I’d love to be able to talk to my daughter like the new suggestions state, but we’ve reached a point where I’m not able to see or talk to her anymore Unless I force the issue, which I’m worried would backfire. I have to go through her mom who keeps telling me that our daughter refuses to talk...

UPDATE. I Talked to my daughter today and I could tell she did not want to speak with me at all. It’s heartbreaking because I don’t want to force her to come over when she feels like this. I now have text messages from her mother, in which she states that she has been having conversations...

Totally in agreement on alcohol. And yes, we have a bad history per the background just added. I know there are 2 sides to every story and I’m not perfect, but trust me when I say my only interest here is seeing my daughter and I feel like her mom is always trying to sabotage our relationship...

What is the name of your state? IL my ex is a bipolar (actual diagnosis) alcoholic who quit drinking about 4 months ago for her new boyfriend who doesn’t drink. We have joint custody of our 10 yr old Daughter - she is the custodial parent - I have visitation every Wed and every other weekend...

I want to do this but I'm worried my daughter will pay a price. My ex interrogates her and anytime she finds out my daughter talked about her being drunk or anything chaotic that went down over there she makes my daughter feel like she did something wrong and has her in tears and tells her that...

Mom provided the phone so we can't do anything like.

We never married and have been apart since our daughter was about 9 moths old. There is a court order that covers visitation and child support. We have joint custody and she the custodial parent. I have my daughter every wed and every other weekend. My ex is a good mom when she’s not...

Thanks. I just wasn’t sure this was something the courts would take into consideration or not. You’ve answered my question.

I was thinking a police report to show the inappropriate texts that she left on the phone. Blow jobs, showing asses and boobs, sluts, smoking weed, getting drunk and using atteral.....on a 9 yr olds phone? Is there really nothing nothing wrong with that?

would it be wise to file A police report and show the phone to them so i have useful documentation before I delete the messages? I’m not expecting the police to do anything but make an official report I can use if ever needed As proof that it did happen. I’m just trying to get everything I...

we live in Illinois, daughter is 9and we have joint custody. My ex picks fights with people when she’s drunk. When she dates other men she lets them Text my daughter So when my daughter is over I look at her phone to make sure nothing odd is going on. My daughter does not know I do this...