Recent content by Kaydee33

He doesn't answer the phone when I call

Yes! Now that's advice I can use. That's a great approach thank you!

Yes I agree and that has been my new approach lately but now when I message him directly I get no response at all... I'm still waiting for a response to a question i asked him over the weekend which i know i will get no answer to because i didn't ask it through a group text. Ridiculous!

Well you're entitled to your opinion but her accessing information that serves no purpose to my child and to then question me about my information is a problem. It's privacy and boundaries. I left alot of important documents and other items in that house so there's no telling what she has access...

The information is current and the same as the years before except a few minor changes in coverage. I left earlier this year... I'm not sure what you're asking or trying to figure out..

Yes I agree and that has been my new approach to the matter and since I have done that, I get no response from anyone including the father. I asked him a question about the upcoming holidays regarding our child and since it wasn't through group messaging no answer has been given. Note I asked Sunday

I left abruptly and did not retrieve all of my belongings when I left because he changed the locks. I gathered everything that I could but I know I didn't get all of my documents out of the house when I left. There's no telling what was left behind considering I lived there for 10yrs... doesn't...

Oh no. I know he has every right to do that and if he gives her permission she can look too. I have no problem with that but my info is none of their business and off limits.

She did exactly what she said she did because she told me things that were in my documents and she knew when I completed them and what I selected. My child's father is a narcissist and has had a private investigator follow me around a couple of times so I know with his help she was able to get...

Im sorry. You're right, I did say the child's medical documents in my original post. My apologies for the confusion. This whole situation is just ridiculous to me. I was ashamed to post it at first because it's just stupid. Co parenting shouldn't be this hard and it doesn't have to be. Im so...

She told me her self because after she did she had the nerve to question me about it. Im not sure how she got my info but I was with the father for 10yrs and we were living in the house that they're in now. He has gotten a private investigator follow me around before so who knows how she got...

It's the boundaries and this information was not medical records of my child. It was my insurance policy and benefits and dependents coverage through my job. All of my information are in those documents including my other child that is not related to the father of the one im writing about.

It wasn't the child's records she was looking up. She was looking at my payment history and seeing when I re enrolled and if the payments were being automatically withdrawn... more so of seeing and looking at my info more so than my child. The information she looked at was not medical records of...

Yes I know that but in this case it was my child's coverage under MY insurance plan. He nor her has the right to access my information

Thank you for your response. I looked over our court documents and it does say that third party interference with visitation is a violation of our order. Our communication is also only to be via mobile, email or in person... not anything other including third parties..