Recent content by kb18

It’s not voluntary it’s in the MSA and court ordered now that the divorce is finalized. I only agreed to it to because circumstances at the time and I was still under ucmj. My attorney at that point told me to wait until I get out to start anything as the military is currently getting hard ons...

Iv I’ve got her on text messages with the black mail. Plus she admits to people that she will bring up the accusations again in public to people. Multiple people we both know as she doesn’t see it as blackmail but more of an impeding axe. I did not know that but thank you. She already has...

That’s that’s great advise. I don’t threaten her and haven’t with anything. I either ignore it or let her finish bantering/ threatening me and approach when things cool off. I’ll have to look into specific statute of limitations. There is a lot of advice I’ve received and I thank you for arming...

It’s 12 hrs a day 7 days a week.well well for now I’m already in country so the 84 hr work weeks are required. I’m hoping a court will realize that it’s contingent upon contract and that I don’t make this / can’t make this regularly. I’m also hoping that I can at least get some custody of my...

It is on the platter, I am currently overseas. A big jump from being enlisted If I lose my secret clearance then it won’t be but that is good advice and I will take it. Thank you. She just finished her first year taking down generals. Her end goal is to be an anesthesiologist. Idk if she’ll...

I guess you're right. I'm just kind of afraid. I dont want her tagging me for $4k a month regardless of whatever job i hold in the future and not allowing me to see my son.

I'll have to look into hiring one now that I can have some $ to pay for one. Any ideas on what I can expect from her in the future? What she's able to do?

She's not disabled by any means. She's applied to the state of Kansas and California trying to claim mental instability to collect on SSI checks but they denied her. She does have 4 different mental diagnoses so it might change in the future that she becomes unstable. I spoke with her and she...

Well right now I don't have a home. I was discharged from the military and took up contracting. My mailing address that I've been using is a friends. that's correct on the blackmail. I have her on sworn statements saying it was consentual but she could always make up a story since I did get...

Right now i'm afforded the opportunity to deploy overseas in combat areas as a civilian contractor. This won't always be the case as the company i'm working with was just outbid on the contract. I might not have a job with this company in the next two years. It's all uncertain. I'm currently...

She's a great mother to him but entirely different when it comes about anything else.

That's the comfort I've been taking with her threats. She asked me when I do my taxes to not report that I've been paying child support because it will pop up that she's been double dipping. She says that she's committing a felony as it's fraud / evasion. She told me she could do up to 10 years...

well I got out of the military in march, took a job 5 hours away at 85k and every weekend i'd drive 5 hrs to see her and him. I just recently took a new position overseas. I was in a hotel for 40 days in a different state. They both ended up staying with me the full time in the hotel. I just...

My wife divorced me in California. I'll try to sum this up as much as possible. Ex military with secret clearance, wife accused me of sexual assault based on our honeymoon where she ended up with a tear in her vagina (was consentual) -> no evidence released to military -> she took back her...