Can my kids father leave for basic training without my knowledge and not include me in his family plan?

[Zigner]

Being without access to BOTH of their parents.

How does that represent a threat of immediate harm to the children?

Yes, but those do not apply to temporary orders.

I think that you misunderstand the scope of the SCRA.

 

[Zigner]

I do not agree with you and it seems like most of the others do not agree with you either.

The OP has had two nights of missed visitation. That is a fact. Should this be acted upon? Definitely. Does it call for histrionics and pleas for emergency action by the courts? Not so much.

 

[LdiJ]

How does that represent a threat of immediate harm to the children?

You think that 5 and 6 year olds being separated from both parents, for a very extended amount of time is not harmful to children?

I think that you misunderstand the scope of the SCRA.

No, I understand it quite well. I think perhaps that you do not quite understand it.

 

[LdiJ]

OP do press on with your emergency actions. Please don't let the personal opinion of one poster on this forum discourage you.

 

[Zigner]

You think that 5 and 6 year olds being separated from both parents, for a very extended amount of time is not harmful to children?

Two days, L. Two days.

 

[stealth2]

I don't see any indication that the kids' residence has changed.

I quoted the portion of OP's post.

 

[atms256]

OP do press on with your emergency actions. Please don't let the personal opinion of one poster on this forum discourage you.

Thank you! its already done so now its up to the judge to see if its necessary or not

 

[Zigner]

I quoted the portion of OP's post.

I missed that (twice, obviously).
I don't know how the OP knows they moved in the last two days...

 

[atms256]

I missed that (twice, obviously).
I don't know how the OP knows they moved in the last two days...

They were all staying with his father thats where I pick them up from when they get off the bus. And they've moved to their own place before he left for basics & thanks to social media as to how i know this. And I didnt mind to know where they moved to because I was seeing my kids at the bus stop every Monday thru Friday.

 

[Zigner]

I have to ask...why aren't you at the school right now?

 

[atms256]

I work at the hospital and have no one covering my shift so I will be going on my lunch

 

[bcr229]

Something else you need to consider: after basic training is over in a few months, your ex can be posted anywhere in the US or even overseas. Depending on where he goes, he will be permitted to take his family with him. If your custody agreement doesn't cover the eventuality of one parent moving away then you need to find an attorney ASAP who can help you address that.

 

[t74]

Something else you need to consider: after basic training is over in a few months, your ex can be posted anywhere in the US or even overseas. Depending on where he goes, he will be permitted to take his family with him. If your custody agreement doesn't cover the eventuality of one parent moving away then you need to find an attorney ASAP who can help you address that.

I am glad someone pointed this out as I was about to post the same thought. I recall several discussions on this forum on the same issue that OP might want to look for.

 

[atms256]

Something else you need to consider: after basic training is over in a few months, your ex can be posted anywhere in the US or even overseas. Depending on where he goes, he will be permitted to take his family with him. If your custody agreement doesn't cover the eventuality of one parent moving away then you need to find an attorney ASAP who can help you address that.

So he can be relocated if he’s only doing the reserve for Army national guard?

 

[Zigner]

So he can be relocated if he’s only doing the reserve for Army national guard?

What happened at the school?