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Is there a way to lock a thread? At this point, I do not think further comments are needed. Thank you to those who did reply logically and offered sound advice.
You are making many assumption based on your own "hunches". You assume that I have not already had therapy. You assume that this is an obsession of mine because I asked a question rather than getting the results of a dna test and saying "no biggie-- who cares?" and moving on.
Do you have a...
I wish to hold the man accountable to the law. Yes. That is literally why people get legal advice. They are either in a position of defense or a position of holding another person accountable. I'm not sure why you have decided that I need therapy for wanting to see the law carried out. You are...
I don't have any recent defamation claims. I have only spoken to him once (when he made that comment about my mom) and that was 10 years ago.
I did discuss this stuff with my mom last night and I probably won't pursue any sort of legal action. I really don't want to take anything from his...
Zigner, you don't know what you are talking about. I wish to hold the man accountable for a wrong he did. I'm not creeping in his windows trying to make his life a living hell and become a lifetime movie storyline. You have made these assumptions simply based on the fact that I am a woman asking...
For clarity: my mom did not have 4 men tested— that was what my biological father said when I reached out to him. She actually had only one man tested.
So why make it into a case if I don’t really get much from it? It’s principal and pride. 30 years later, no one cares that much and they’ve all...
Thank you! I don't want to take anything away from his family-- it's not something they did. But as a matter of principle, I would like it to be established and have my mother's name "cleared".
An example of the judgment my mother has faced based off of this man's actions. Somehow, even with...
What would the process for this look like?
What would be considered proof? I am accusing a man anonymously on this thread for the purposes of asking this question. I wanted advice here to see if I even had a case before I took it to an attorney.
I am accusing the man of a crime. That is literally what I am asking about. I believe he committed a crime. Maybe 30 years ago and no longer valid, maybe a comparably small crime, but yes... I believe he was wrong. I do believe he should or should have received just punishment.
I'm sorry if...
It was just the one. She assumes that this is what happened because she went back and looked at the picture. The officer who she looked at it with her told her that the fingerprints could not be read. She did report the discrepancy with the office but she didn't pursue any other legal matters...
You are twisting my words. I don't need therapy because I am asking a legal question on a legal forum. And justice is owning up to consequences when you have done wrong. The consequences weren't having me-- thank you very much. The consequences are legally (hence why I am on a legal forum)...
Right? I really appreciate all the sound legal advice but I really don't understand the need to be so harsh towards my mother who was a victim in this situation. She did bring the guy to court. She did not have the means to legally pursue this and was at a disadvantage. I get that now it is too...
By pay I didn't mean money-- mean the pay the consequences. I did reach out to him and he said "your mom forced at least 5 men to take that paternity test and my results are clear. " I have not approached him or his family with the 23andme results, yet.
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