WhereIsJustice
Junior Member
What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? Wash St. My father is my only living parent, but I have 6 other siblings. I don't know why, but a few months ago, my dad gave each of us a copy of his will, & he left everything only to me. His trailer, his van, & any money, also all contents of the trailer. This is a shock & a saddness to me.Why? Because being the youngest, I have always been the 'black sheep' of my family. My siblings grew up thinking my parents loved me more then them, which was never true. But, they made me pay the price growing up. I grew up in a huge family, a very lonely person as they avoided me, & teased me relentlessly. He left as trustees to this will, my middle sister & her husband, who have never liked me or my husband. ( My husband is also in the will w/me.) If something happens to us, it is to go to my children, of which after my only daughter recently passed on, is only 3 remaining sons. When I asked my father why, he said because they have so much, & you have nothing. You & your husband remind me of your mother & I as we were struggeling. ( Made me cry, as I seen it as pity, & not love..but I know he means well..even though a million dollars couldn't replace my father.) This is all hard for me to even talk about, but I fear for if my dad does preceed me in death..since those who are his trustees, hate me so very much. Am I in danger, or should I be afraid? I know once anything ever does happen to my wonderful father, all my siblings will try hard to make my life even more miserable. How can I be sure things go as my father wishes, & prepare myself. I don't know what a trustee can do. I just know my dads trustees hate me & my husband. Also a qeustion about the will. I noticed there was a place marked for him to initial, that he didn't. It was the part of changing the will if he wanted to change his mind. Why wouldnt' he initial this, if you know?
What can a trustee do to the hier, or can't do? Can they take thier time w/his wishes, do whatever they want? I didn't understand that part as I read it at all, I'm still qaucking from the news he choseonly me, out of so many, & he chose some people who hate us to be his trustees. Thank you very much. I appreciate anything you can help me with, regarding this. This is new to me, & not a very easy subject for me to talk about.
What can a trustee do to the hier, or can't do? Can they take thier time w/his wishes, do whatever they want? I didn't understand that part as I read it at all, I'm still qaucking from the news he choseonly me, out of so many, & he chose some people who hate us to be his trustees. Thank you very much. I appreciate anything you can help me with, regarding this. This is new to me, & not a very easy subject for me to talk about.