TinkerBelleLuvr
Senior Member
What is the name of your state? Michigan/Florida
Okay, there has NEVER been a long-distance exchange that hasn't had problems.
the court order states:
Little history: in 2005, my X decided to drive down to 'vacation' here in Florida for the mid-summer exchange. I had purchased the ticket for the older child to come and visit. What happened was the X landed up flying the younger one on the older one's ticket and the older one was the lucky one in the car with Dad, GF and grandpa. I landed up picking up from Orlando (120 miles from home.) Older one did land up going back with the trio and I canceled her ticket. I protested to the FOC about the wrong child flying on the ticket I purchase. He was chastised for that. Now he is under the delusion that the child must fly in and out of the same airports. So if she goes from the one that is 90 miles from home, she must return to that same one.
Question number 1:
So, my dilemna. I purchased, in JUNE, Sweetpea's ticket to return home on Sunday (like yesterday) at the airport that is 35 miles from me. (School isn't till Tuesday, so I made a flight coming in at 10:30 at night.) HE purchased a round-trip ticket that has her flying in to the airport 90 miles from me. The plane is 1.5 hours delayed, so Sweetpea will land around 11:20 tonight, with a 1.5 hour trip home. And yes, she has school in the morning.
SO, he is returning her THIS time, but a day late by my books. Is this contempt?
It certainly isn't in the best interest of SweetPea such a late arrival. He's been in contempt (with time enjoying some bars) already. I'm toying between just NOT doing anything, other than having FOC send him a letter that he is delusional on his thinking or forcing a court hearing.
By his thinking, if he were to drive down in June, I would be forced to drive up there and drive her back mid-summer (he's actually stated that to me.) Or do I press it again, because I think that the only thing that may make him understand a court order is a stay in the slammer. I'm against that ONLY because he actually has a job now, and it would be nice for him to remain employed.
Question #2:
My order states that I can only DOMICILE in Michigan or Florida. There is nothing in ANY of the court orders that states that I can't vacation anywhere in the US. Now, part of his reasoning that he attempted to use against me this summer was that I was illegally taking HIS daughter to California; that I hadn't asked HIS permission to take her. Hey, it was my vacation time; all I had to say was I'm going from this date to this date and you can call me on my cell to get ahold of us.
PS - I have an unused ticket that gets to be applied to a vacation
Okay, there has NEVER been a long-distance exchange that hasn't had problems.
the court order states:
FOC states since my court order does NOT specify HOW the transportation is split, we are each responsible for the child coming to us.a. The parties share legal and physical custody of the two (2) minor children with physical custody of SweetPea (the one I have) to the Plaintiff (me) and physical custody of CollegeGal (older, now emancipated daughter) to Defendant (dad).
c. Each party have reasonable rights of parenting time with the minor child in the physical custody of the other party and that they alternate between Spring Break, Thanksgiving and Christmas holidays so that the two children would be together with one of the parties during each of the holiday seasons. The parties each spend one half of the summer vacations with both children. All other times where either party may be within the State of Florida or the State of Michigan parenting time will be arranged between the parties.
d. The Plaintiff be granted a change in domicile for the minor child G. to reside within the State of Florida and that no other change of domicile be allowed unless to return to the State of Michigan.
e. The parties share the cost of transportation for all parenting time purposes between the State of Florida and the State of Michigan.
Little history: in 2005, my X decided to drive down to 'vacation' here in Florida for the mid-summer exchange. I had purchased the ticket for the older child to come and visit. What happened was the X landed up flying the younger one on the older one's ticket and the older one was the lucky one in the car with Dad, GF and grandpa. I landed up picking up from Orlando (120 miles from home.) Older one did land up going back with the trio and I canceled her ticket. I protested to the FOC about the wrong child flying on the ticket I purchase. He was chastised for that. Now he is under the delusion that the child must fly in and out of the same airports. So if she goes from the one that is 90 miles from home, she must return to that same one.
Question number 1:
So, my dilemna. I purchased, in JUNE, Sweetpea's ticket to return home on Sunday (like yesterday) at the airport that is 35 miles from me. (School isn't till Tuesday, so I made a flight coming in at 10:30 at night.) HE purchased a round-trip ticket that has her flying in to the airport 90 miles from me. The plane is 1.5 hours delayed, so Sweetpea will land around 11:20 tonight, with a 1.5 hour trip home. And yes, she has school in the morning.
SO, he is returning her THIS time, but a day late by my books. Is this contempt?
It certainly isn't in the best interest of SweetPea such a late arrival. He's been in contempt (with time enjoying some bars) already. I'm toying between just NOT doing anything, other than having FOC send him a letter that he is delusional on his thinking or forcing a court hearing.
By his thinking, if he were to drive down in June, I would be forced to drive up there and drive her back mid-summer (he's actually stated that to me.) Or do I press it again, because I think that the only thing that may make him understand a court order is a stay in the slammer. I'm against that ONLY because he actually has a job now, and it would be nice for him to remain employed.
Question #2:
My order states that I can only DOMICILE in Michigan or Florida. There is nothing in ANY of the court orders that states that I can't vacation anywhere in the US. Now, part of his reasoning that he attempted to use against me this summer was that I was illegally taking HIS daughter to California; that I hadn't asked HIS permission to take her. Hey, it was my vacation time; all I had to say was I'm going from this date to this date and you can call me on my cell to get ahold of us.
So, can I vacation anywhere (in the US)? Yes, I want to try California again. My son and grandbaby are out there and long overdue for a visit.dom·i·cile (dm-sl, -sl, dm-)
n.
1. A residence; a home.
2. One's legal residence.
PS - I have an unused ticket that gets to be applied to a vacation