What is the name of your state? Minnesota
I have joint physical and legal custody. My son is 11. Our parenting time is every other week. My son told me that 2 days a week he is babysitting, at home alone, his 5 and 2 year old siblings all day while his mother is working 8+ hours. The closest relative is 15 minutes away and he does not know the neighbors (they live in the country). Minnesota does not have home alone laws, just guidelines, and nothing that states when a child can babysit. I feel like this is not safe for my son nor his siblings there, but do I have a leg to stand on? Having joint legal, am I able to have a say in this? My son freezes in stressful situations, and when asking him safety questions (what to do when child is choking, what to do if child is injured), he was unable to answer those correctly. Mom is high conflict so I know it won't be a matter of me relaying my concerns and her really listening, as she will tell me "her house her rules". I agree with that to a point, but want to know if legally I have a say in this matter.
Any advice for this would be appreciated.
I have joint physical and legal custody. My son is 11. Our parenting time is every other week. My son told me that 2 days a week he is babysitting, at home alone, his 5 and 2 year old siblings all day while his mother is working 8+ hours. The closest relative is 15 minutes away and he does not know the neighbors (they live in the country). Minnesota does not have home alone laws, just guidelines, and nothing that states when a child can babysit. I feel like this is not safe for my son nor his siblings there, but do I have a leg to stand on? Having joint legal, am I able to have a say in this? My son freezes in stressful situations, and when asking him safety questions (what to do when child is choking, what to do if child is injured), he was unable to answer those correctly. Mom is high conflict so I know it won't be a matter of me relaying my concerns and her really listening, as she will tell me "her house her rules". I agree with that to a point, but want to know if legally I have a say in this matter.
Any advice for this would be appreciated.