17 wants to date 24 yr old in new york

[princessox]

What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New York
i am seventeen years old and really like my friend who is twenty-four..is it okay for us to date?

 

[stealth2]

What do your parents say about it?

 

[You Are Guilty]

Go right ahead. I was just saying the other day how much we need more illigitimate babies on welfare. If you care at all, please do your part to help make some more.

 

[princessox]

my parents don't mind, their okay with it

 

[stealth2]

Then you can. Just bear in mind that adults don't generally date children for their scintillating conversation.

 

[princessox]

haha thank you. but i have known him for quite a while, since we were both younger. in my case, i don't think that's a problem.

 

[stealth2]

And that's what most girls say.

 

[CdwJava]

haha thank you. but i have known him for quite a while, since we were both younger. in my case, i don't think that's a problem.

When I was 24 years old, I was out of college ... if I was interested in a girl at 17 it was NOT because she was intellectually stimulating. That's going to be the same here whether you think it is or not. And he may have even convinced himself that you are a peer, but, either he is immature or he has other ideas consuming his thoughts.

Good luck.

- Carl

 

[AHA]

haha thank you. but i have known him for quite a while, since we were both younger. in my case, i don't think that's a problem.

How much history can you have had with this guy when you're still only 17? The thing is, that you will change a lot in the next few years in order to become the adult you will be. He, at 24, has already become who he will be. If you want to date him, fine, but for heavens sake don't move in together or marry or have kids, because you still have several years before you have matured mentally into the person you will be forever, and the chances that he's still your dream guy after those years(or you his dream girl) could be very slim. If you are a smart person, tread very slowly and carefully.

 

[princessox]

I'm not planning to marry him, I'm not going to have his kids, or for that matter even STAY with him. I'm not even 'in love' with him..This is just a thing for right now, and I am a very smart girl and I am very aware of everything. I just wanted to make sure that legally it wouldn't be a problem. Thanks for the help.

 

[CdwJava]

I'm not planning to marry him, I'm not going to have his kids, or for that matter even STAY with him. I'm not even 'in love' with him..This is just a thing for right now, and I am a very smart girl and I am very aware of everything. I just wanted to make sure that legally it wouldn't be a problem. Thanks for the help.

Many girls who get knocked up say the same thing. If you have sex with him, the chances are there (even with 'protection') that you can get pregnant.

If you're ready - good for you. But I don't know too many people well into their twenties that are 'ready' for children ... much less a girl of 17.

And this is a pretty casual affair for you, isn't it?

Ah, for the good ol' days when dating and being together had a goal in mind ... aside from a horizontal bop.

- Carl