What is the name of your state?nebraska is state where cso is. mother lives in iowa. in 1976 mother got devorced after a year of abuse, she was 17? at the time. decided to give children up for adoption (2 boys) but family stepped in and said no way and her parents took custady of children, mother signing over the kids just like an adoption. mother had job not paying much at all. after all these years child support is saying she owes 15,000 in arears. grandmother(her mom) always stated she didn't want money from her, so she did odd jobs for parents to make up for the cash she didn't have and grandparents didn't want, even was a caretaker for both parents later in years, quiting her job to do so. now nebraska pulled her drivers license, not getting one in iowa yet after only moving here recently. both grandparents are dead now, she is grandmother now, and is now a caretaker for her husband who is bedridden. does she owe the state 15,000, back in the 70's cs wasn't enforced as it is now and nothing really has been said up till this point about it to her, ex husband killed himself so he don't pay anything. any and all help is needed on this