1jr2ps said:
Well... I have tried to be calm about the whole damn thing and have been told about the taxpayers paying his bills if they arrest him now.
And that is a very valid excuse. Cities and counties have to run on budgets, and paying $10,000 per day for a guy they don't have to is something that no county wants to do. Keep in mind that the money would have to come from somewhere ... perhaps fewer firefighters, teachers, or deputies next year just to get one guy arraigned before his time.
I just want to be SURE this guy is going to pay. I want to sleep. I want to quit calling everyone trying to get every last drop of proof out there.
I do understand. But it does not sound like he is going anywhere soon.
I want the charges filed. Can I hire an attorney to assist? I have NO CONFIDENCE.
A private attorney would be able to do nothing to push the matter through. He would, however, very likely succeed in pissing off the prosecutor.
If they have the evidence, they WILL go after the guy when they can. NO ONE wants to let a child molestor go free! But, as I said, they have to be able to PROVE their case in court before they do go forward. If they have all they need, then it could be that they are waiting for the suspect to get healthy again or for the DA to have his schedule cleared up.
I will feel relieved when he is not going to get 30 days of counselling. He ****ed up my kid's childhood. I HATE HIM!
I don't blame you. But bear in mind that it is not over yet. if it goes to trial she will have to take the stand and go through it all again ... and its likely she will be attacked, her friends will be attacked, her parents (you) will be attacked, etc. It will likely get worse before he goes away. If he pleads, however, then there would be no need for a trial.
Again, they need enough evidence to convict. If they have that then the hold up is simply one of logistics or common sense finances.
This suicide attempt will most likely get him sympathy.
From whom? If he did what you think he did, I'm disappointed that he failed. I think the only sympathy that he'll generate is that for the firemen and medics who had to tear themselves away from a good meal to go keep him alive.
His dad's a cop too. THAT'S why I want the charges to come out.
You want the charges to come out because his dad's a cop? What's that got to do with it?
Would it make a difference if his dad was an engineer? A teacher? A gardener? Who CARES what his dad does or did for a living? That bears no relevance to the situation.
He will commit assisted suicide if something stupid happens.
In my state we call that murder. But, if he commits suicide, he saves the state the cost of a trial and an incarceration.
Another thing to consider: How messed up is he from the suicide attempt? Is he brain dead or almost vegetative? Is he aware? If he is too messed up he may no longer be capable of standing trial.
- Carl