What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? Wyoming
I have been dealing with this issue for a very long time, so it would be nice to have some advice so I can finally settle it . . .
In Dec 2007, my boyfriend & I moved in together. We had a small apartment in Jackson Hole, WY. He didn't have a job, so I agreed to support him until he could pay me back. In March of 2008, we broke off our relationship & I told him to leave the house. At that time, he owed me just under $4,000, however - before he left the house, I asked that he sign an Excel document listing all of the itemized dollar amounts of what he owed me. He signed it.
In June of 2008, I took him to court & won by default because he didn't even care to go. The judge awarded me that I should be paid the money he borrowed. I then had to put more paperwork through to the court so they could serve his workplace. But, wouldn't you know it -- he quit before payments could be given to me. Then he went under the radar & now has a job as a waiter or off the books or something. His debt is now at the $4K mark.
He keeps telling me he's going to pay me, but now I'm pretty much convinced he's just lying. He sold his sailboat last December & blew the money on a month long trip to California - instead of paying his debt to me. I know it's been awhile now, but I talked to a business collegue the other day that said I should get a debt collector to collect from him - that way I could recoup some of the money. I'm not sure how to go about this, because it seems these are on a business-to-business level & not for personal people working out money issues with other people. I'm not even sure if this is a good idea at this point.
We live in a small town & it's hard to see him going to parties & bars, spending money (which makes me angry). He has not paid a dime to me since I was awarded by the court & I know he has 4 bank accounts, but I don't know if paying $40 each time for the court to serve the banks is even worth it. Or -- if I should just go full-gangbusters & get a lawyer to sue him somehow. He's told me before, "Hey, you can't squeeze blood out of a turnip." Hmmmm, yeah - that angers me quite a bit.
Anyway, thanks for your time ~
Rose
I have been dealing with this issue for a very long time, so it would be nice to have some advice so I can finally settle it . . .
In Dec 2007, my boyfriend & I moved in together. We had a small apartment in Jackson Hole, WY. He didn't have a job, so I agreed to support him until he could pay me back. In March of 2008, we broke off our relationship & I told him to leave the house. At that time, he owed me just under $4,000, however - before he left the house, I asked that he sign an Excel document listing all of the itemized dollar amounts of what he owed me. He signed it.
In June of 2008, I took him to court & won by default because he didn't even care to go. The judge awarded me that I should be paid the money he borrowed. I then had to put more paperwork through to the court so they could serve his workplace. But, wouldn't you know it -- he quit before payments could be given to me. Then he went under the radar & now has a job as a waiter or off the books or something. His debt is now at the $4K mark.
He keeps telling me he's going to pay me, but now I'm pretty much convinced he's just lying. He sold his sailboat last December & blew the money on a month long trip to California - instead of paying his debt to me. I know it's been awhile now, but I talked to a business collegue the other day that said I should get a debt collector to collect from him - that way I could recoup some of the money. I'm not sure how to go about this, because it seems these are on a business-to-business level & not for personal people working out money issues with other people. I'm not even sure if this is a good idea at this point.
We live in a small town & it's hard to see him going to parties & bars, spending money (which makes me angry). He has not paid a dime to me since I was awarded by the court & I know he has 4 bank accounts, but I don't know if paying $40 each time for the court to serve the banks is even worth it. Or -- if I should just go full-gangbusters & get a lawyer to sue him somehow. He's told me before, "Hey, you can't squeeze blood out of a turnip." Hmmmm, yeah - that angers me quite a bit.
Anyway, thanks for your time ~
Rose
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