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Two summers ago my 11 yr old child recieved homemade porn and graphic porn from a boy that was 13 yr old. Their friendship ended because of this. The 13 yr old boys mother began working as an aid at the school.
All last year my 8 yr old son was being picked on and bullied by this boys mom, a special needs aid. My son is not a special needs student. He is quiet, bright with no behavior issues. The aid would yell and verbally abuse my son for incidents he did not commit. She would humiliate him in front of the class when the teacher was not around.Other students seen this as a game and enjoyed and played along with the aid. Many of the students told my son she "hated" him and was "mean". I told the teacher of the situation and she said she would observe.I trusted her and was very patient but the abuse continued. I mentioned it again to the teacher and she said had not seen any problems and that my son is a great student.. Meanwhile it was with the class witnessing it. The year finally ended and he happliy went to 4th grade knowing this aid was in another classroom with her special needs student.
On the first day of school my now 8yr old daughter was yelled at the same aid for "rolling" her eyes at her. I called the principle (she called me a week later) and told her of my sons year long problem and that I will not tolerate the aid abusing my children any longer. Tha principle defended the aid and said my daughter was rude and that the aid would never do anything like I described. I told her I want action, she said she would check it out.
A week in a half later I called and the principle said nothing happened as I described and she defended the aid. When my son came home he told me the principle took him in her office and kept insisting that he was "not being truthful" and that he made all this up. He kept insisting it happened and was very traumatized and crying.
I called the principle right away asking why she upset him. She said she told him that he was over reacting and she was busy and she hung up on me.
I then call the school superintendants office and left a message. A day later and no reply. What can I do to stop this abuse to my children? Please advise.
Two summers ago my 11 yr old child recieved homemade porn and graphic porn from a boy that was 13 yr old. Their friendship ended because of this. The 13 yr old boys mother began working as an aid at the school.
All last year my 8 yr old son was being picked on and bullied by this boys mom, a special needs aid. My son is not a special needs student. He is quiet, bright with no behavior issues. The aid would yell and verbally abuse my son for incidents he did not commit. She would humiliate him in front of the class when the teacher was not around.Other students seen this as a game and enjoyed and played along with the aid. Many of the students told my son she "hated" him and was "mean". I told the teacher of the situation and she said she would observe.I trusted her and was very patient but the abuse continued. I mentioned it again to the teacher and she said had not seen any problems and that my son is a great student.. Meanwhile it was with the class witnessing it. The year finally ended and he happliy went to 4th grade knowing this aid was in another classroom with her special needs student.
On the first day of school my now 8yr old daughter was yelled at the same aid for "rolling" her eyes at her. I called the principle (she called me a week later) and told her of my sons year long problem and that I will not tolerate the aid abusing my children any longer. Tha principle defended the aid and said my daughter was rude and that the aid would never do anything like I described. I told her I want action, she said she would check it out.
A week in a half later I called and the principle said nothing happened as I described and she defended the aid. When my son came home he told me the principle took him in her office and kept insisting that he was "not being truthful" and that he made all this up. He kept insisting it happened and was very traumatized and crying.
I called the principle right away asking why she upset him. She said she told him that he was over reacting and she was busy and she hung up on me.
I then call the school superintendants office and left a message. A day later and no reply. What can I do to stop this abuse to my children? Please advise.
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