What is the name of your state? Colorado
I noticed that all these parents are on here are talking from only anger and disgust, when no one really looks at the other side of the story.
Doesn’t anyone on here have any sympathy for being young and in love? And just wanting someone to listen and understand instead of running their loud nagging mouths before anyone gets to finish. That’s the problem with over 75% of the homes in America.... PARENTS DO NOT LISTEN. You rather get your point across and have the conversation over than to listen to your daughters feelings. Women are emotional. They have more feelings inside, along with thoughts that race a mile a minute. And every time you put your foot down and say that’s the end of it, it’s like a jack knife right through our hearts. If anyone is still reading this, let me speak from experience. I am a mature 15 year old that comes from a good home, and defiantly knows what she wants in life. I am a 4.0 honor student. I am so responsible I balance my mother and fathers check book and help them pay their bills on time. So why is it, someone like me, someone that is still legally a minor, but who acts like an adult, and is treated like one, there feelings and respect is just taken away within a snap of a finger. It’s like your controlling side comes out and you feel like you must do something about nothing, or you are not a good person. When all it takes is to listen to the situation and really honestly think about the situation and maybe even give it a good try before saying the crude hurtful thoughtless word… no.
Like I said, I am 15, but my boyfriend is 19. I won’t be 16 until April. And he is turning 20 on Christmas. He looks like he is 16, and sometimes he even acts like it. I have herd so much regarding my situation I don’t know what is true or not. The only person that knows my situation is my sister, who I live with 5 out of 7 days a week. And she says that he is perfect for me and she is scared he is going to become my best friend instead of her. She completely approves of this, but the parents do not know. One thing I have herd is, four years. From 13-15 it can be a four year difference. Then once the age of 16 comes, it can be a ten year difference. Is this true? I want things to be completely legal and I want to come clean with my self to my boyfriend about my age. 15 not 18.
If I have gained any respect from anyone, please help me with your advice. I am so scared I am going to loose the first person I have ever cared about and whom I am my self around. If anyone could send me a link regarding the law that pertains to me for verbatim, I would appreciate it. Thank you. Sincerely Jenny1518
I noticed that all these parents are on here are talking from only anger and disgust, when no one really looks at the other side of the story.
Doesn’t anyone on here have any sympathy for being young and in love? And just wanting someone to listen and understand instead of running their loud nagging mouths before anyone gets to finish. That’s the problem with over 75% of the homes in America.... PARENTS DO NOT LISTEN. You rather get your point across and have the conversation over than to listen to your daughters feelings. Women are emotional. They have more feelings inside, along with thoughts that race a mile a minute. And every time you put your foot down and say that’s the end of it, it’s like a jack knife right through our hearts. If anyone is still reading this, let me speak from experience. I am a mature 15 year old that comes from a good home, and defiantly knows what she wants in life. I am a 4.0 honor student. I am so responsible I balance my mother and fathers check book and help them pay their bills on time. So why is it, someone like me, someone that is still legally a minor, but who acts like an adult, and is treated like one, there feelings and respect is just taken away within a snap of a finger. It’s like your controlling side comes out and you feel like you must do something about nothing, or you are not a good person. When all it takes is to listen to the situation and really honestly think about the situation and maybe even give it a good try before saying the crude hurtful thoughtless word… no.
Like I said, I am 15, but my boyfriend is 19. I won’t be 16 until April. And he is turning 20 on Christmas. He looks like he is 16, and sometimes he even acts like it. I have herd so much regarding my situation I don’t know what is true or not. The only person that knows my situation is my sister, who I live with 5 out of 7 days a week. And she says that he is perfect for me and she is scared he is going to become my best friend instead of her. She completely approves of this, but the parents do not know. One thing I have herd is, four years. From 13-15 it can be a four year difference. Then once the age of 16 comes, it can be a ten year difference. Is this true? I want things to be completely legal and I want to come clean with my self to my boyfriend about my age. 15 not 18.
If I have gained any respect from anyone, please help me with your advice. I am so scared I am going to loose the first person I have ever cared about and whom I am my self around. If anyone could send me a link regarding the law that pertains to me for verbatim, I would appreciate it. Thank you. Sincerely Jenny1518
