Three kids? Annulment? Not bloody likely! What you can do, is go see an attorney. Either he's dead or he's to much of a jerk to even call his family. Either way, see if you can get a divorce. The thing is, if he shows up later, then he can contest being DEAD (for obvious reasons!) and you might end up still being married. If you divorce him, then his family can see about having him legally declared DEAD. It is really up to you though! The small thing, if he is declared dead as opposed to getting a divorce, you could get Social Security Benefits for him. Of course, that would get messy if he showed up later as well! WHEEEEE! In the end, you are going to have to make your own decisions, yes? I HATE decisions, so more power to you!
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COLLEGE STUDENTS' PRAYER
My father/mother/or gender-nuetral appellation, who art in Heaven unless you believe my Intro to Philosophy Professor, hallowed by thy name.
Though I walk through the valley of the Shadow of Debt, please deliver me from student loan creditors.
And if I should die before I wake, it was probably the food from the cafeteria.
DOWN TO THE RIVER
A blonde was staring dumfounded at a rushing river blocking her path. As she wondered how to cross, she saw another blonde on the other side. She yelled "Hey, can you help me get to the other side?"
The other blonde replied "You ARE on the other side!!!!"
AGGIE-RAVATION
There's an Aggie and his friend going deer hunting on their uncle's land.
The uncle tells them that he has every deer in the area labeled "Deer", so they'll know when they see one.
The very next day, the uncle goes out into his front yard and sees his brand new John Deere Tractor dead.