Have you point blank asked him if he would sign to allow new husband to adopt in exchange for you not filing for child support?Purplemom said:yeah, apparently the affidavit is legally binding for CS.
But my problem is not that he wants time with her. I would be happy to give it.
The problem is that he doesn't exist to her. And that my fiance wants to adopt her. I realize that he can't adopt until we are married, but what would it take to get his rights revoked? Would all of his convictions do it, or would he have to have more current issues? He was jailed in 2004. I have no way of knowing if he is really clean. Would that require forcing him to drug test?
While "buying a child" is pretty much morally reprehensible, if dad doesn't want to see her, maybe he would agree to sign over his rights.