trixielexi
Junior Member
What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)? California
Ok, so I'm posting on behalf of my boyfriend as he just went into work right now.
He works at a upscale country club as a waiter. This is his second year there. His boss and his co-workers are all familiar with him and know his character. Yesterday at the end of his shift, he was bussing some tables getting them ready for the dinner shift, and the last server to be serving a table left early, we'll call him Marco. Today, a man comes in that was seated in Marco's section and asks if he got the $100 dollar tip he left for him yesterday. Marco tells him he didn't, so the customer asks who else was working and he said my boyfriend, we'll call him Andy, was. The customer yells in Andy's face in front of the restaurant accusing him of stealing, etc. etc. Andy's boss James calmed him down and told him they'd get to the bottom of it, pulls Andy aside and tell him if he finds out he did it, he'll do anything he can to prosecute him. Now, I found this to be a little odd for a business owner to even think about saying to their employee as it's very hostile and I know from working at Walmart a supervisor was demoted for saying something similar to a stocker. None of his co workers are helping him serve tables and it's been very stressful, especially since he's innocent and we all know the "innocent before proven guilty" rule of thumb. Especially since also, the reason why Marco got the $100 dollar tip was because he kissed the customer on the cheek during service(which is obviously a big no-no and harassment issue. As well as the customer had at least 4 drinks so Andy thinks his memory might be fuzzy because there was absolutely no money on the table when he went to go clean it)
I told Andy to talk to James about how he feels and to document EVERYTHING that is being said and who is present. I told him to make sure he tells James that he should know his character and would hope he knows him by now that he'd never do anything like that (I know that doesn't necessarily mean they'll let up, but it couldn't hurt) and that having his co workers ignore him and leave him to a whole section alone is creating a very stressful and very hostile work environment for him. Andy's main concern is that his boss will fire him or his co workers will try and force him out. I told him his boss probably can't fire him and that it would be wrongful termination especially if they can't prove Andy did anything. I want to know exactly what he can do if either of those scenarios happens.
Ok, so I'm posting on behalf of my boyfriend as he just went into work right now.
He works at a upscale country club as a waiter. This is his second year there. His boss and his co-workers are all familiar with him and know his character. Yesterday at the end of his shift, he was bussing some tables getting them ready for the dinner shift, and the last server to be serving a table left early, we'll call him Marco. Today, a man comes in that was seated in Marco's section and asks if he got the $100 dollar tip he left for him yesterday. Marco tells him he didn't, so the customer asks who else was working and he said my boyfriend, we'll call him Andy, was. The customer yells in Andy's face in front of the restaurant accusing him of stealing, etc. etc. Andy's boss James calmed him down and told him they'd get to the bottom of it, pulls Andy aside and tell him if he finds out he did it, he'll do anything he can to prosecute him. Now, I found this to be a little odd for a business owner to even think about saying to their employee as it's very hostile and I know from working at Walmart a supervisor was demoted for saying something similar to a stocker. None of his co workers are helping him serve tables and it's been very stressful, especially since he's innocent and we all know the "innocent before proven guilty" rule of thumb. Especially since also, the reason why Marco got the $100 dollar tip was because he kissed the customer on the cheek during service(which is obviously a big no-no and harassment issue. As well as the customer had at least 4 drinks so Andy thinks his memory might be fuzzy because there was absolutely no money on the table when he went to go clean it)
I told Andy to talk to James about how he feels and to document EVERYTHING that is being said and who is present. I told him to make sure he tells James that he should know his character and would hope he knows him by now that he'd never do anything like that (I know that doesn't necessarily mean they'll let up, but it couldn't hurt) and that having his co workers ignore him and leave him to a whole section alone is creating a very stressful and very hostile work environment for him. Andy's main concern is that his boss will fire him or his co workers will try and force him out. I told him his boss probably can't fire him and that it would be wrongful termination especially if they can't prove Andy did anything. I want to know exactly what he can do if either of those scenarios happens.