one option... hire a pi (which will cost you, but if there is anything to be found... it will be money well spent.) hopefully your pi is considered an expert witness in court. the pi i secured used a telephoto lens camera and video. the pi informed me when we were finished that the evidence collected had what the court of law was looking for to prove adultery: "time, opportunity & amorous affection". Incidentally, that is what my atty states was needed for the case. i tagged the spouse several different days to get a pattern and to preserve the 20 hours for the pi's time on the case, which means that when i discovered things were going down... i contacted the pi and they (co-worker) arrived on the scene. if you love your spouse as much as i do... you may feel as sick as i did while waiting... it has only been a week since collecting the evidence. still, i feel heartbroken & betrayed and have great difficulty in forgetting the images i saw for myself. only hours later after collecting the evidence... spouse (not knowing that i have any evidence) told me that there has never been another, never loved another, never had sex with another, never made love to another... and only loves one person... being me!!! the lying/deceit is all that is empowering me at this time to keep moving forward. bottom line: if you don't think of yourself, than who will? SELF-PRESERVATION. i wish you the best of luck... Just a question... What ever happened to marriage, commitment, monogamy...?
