Hi I'm asking this on behalf of a friend. She has recently served her ex-boyfriend for posessions and a certain amount of money. He received the papers and she recently told me that he wants to sit down and talk about things not pertaining to the case. Now I recently have an issue that I am dealing with and my lawyer told me that once papers have been served then I should have no contact what so ever with the other party. So my question is, would it be advisable for her to go meet with him on a one on one in a public restaurant, or could this possibly be some way of getting evidence from her that he may be able to use in court?