What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state?What is the name of your state? New Hampshire
I have been married for 17 years seperated and going through divorce for 3 years. Worst nightmare. I had supported household for 7 years while husband persued Antique business. It was to be family run move on to auctioneering, live on the ocean in Maine , buy in Florida when kids were olderall feasable or so I thought. He was a "door knocker" hustling the elderly. His job soon became going to shows, museums,auctions and familiarizing himself with the Antique click.He was "investing" all inventory was stored at his family's home spread throughout homes of his sister and mother and God only knows where else.
I was burning out at work borrowed off of low interest credit gave him$$ to invest trying to jump start my future. The home was mine built before we met. I was always responsible for it he did not want to be put on the deed which left him with no feeling of responsibility. I was getting impatient was continuously told business was not stable and I was left in the back and I started to see his arrogance come out. Our last year b-4 yoyoing I recieved barely anything ,the last month I told him he needed to start contributing. He left and has been living like a Porno Star .Greediest , nastiest most self absorbed man I have ever met. Six months after leaving numerous purchases for himself Harley , Beach Cottage completely remodeled it on and on. Has not missed a Superbowl ,and after that him and his Harley go to Florida and do not return till after Bike Week.
He dragged his feet fighting all the way trying to tell me what he owed. He has lied a million lies and I was in a no win situation I tried to believe him.
I lost my job and still feel the mental repercusions of what he has done. We have two children who have also been discarded . He had been hot and cold I still am blown away .He had given me decent child support and picked up KOBRA FOR 1 1/2 YRS and a large amount of cash all put torwards debt BUT to little to late. I used all unemployment , cashed out my 401k trying to pay debt .He served me divorce papers I had found a sliding scale atty who after my 2nd hearing had gotten me a $50 a MONTH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT and was told to go to the state for Health Care. I also got to stay in my home, while hubby was living in his home paid in full , had full use of OUR beach cottage , and we could share a trailer that we have had for 11 years .I filed Chapter 13 to stop a forclosure while he sat and watched. I am spent . I Have taken waitressing jobs that I have lost because this has consumed me. He is tanning and works out every day he should be leaving soon for Florida. He chose his new lifestyle over his family and has very easily moved on. My husband is furious with me because I told him I want the cottage and the Harley sold and split.
I cannot afford a detective I know how he operates. He is in a large cash business , he has someone selling his things on the internet, he has checks written out to others and pays them to cash, he now travels throughout the country sells through consignment shops everywhere, I have checked out shows that I know he has sold at but his name is not being shown as a dealer. I emailed a sponsor of one of his shows asking the name he is working under they have a privacy policy she could take my # and have him call me .He has property that is in friends name , the friend he bought the Harley off of now claims he still owes $10000 . He is driving aaround in an older van after burning his 2002 van because of high mileage. He told his friend and wife to meet him in KEY WEST WHEN THEY WERE GOING DOWN FOR THE DAYTONA 500. He is a compulsive lier and how do you defend someone like that.
My husband has a home that he will never worry about a mortgage on , and his father's estate and whatever his mother will be leaving him,. They are wealthy . He has a home full of antiques .He has an attorney and an accountant that have I'M SURE taken care of anything dirty. He has not sweated once throughout this.I am constantly worried and are raising our children throughout all this.
I KNOW THERE IS PROBABLY TO MUCH WINEY GRIEF HERE . I have hired another attorney who is behind me but says proof is needed.Anybody out there got any suggestions??? OTHER THAN MOVE ON AND GET A JOB!!!
I have been married for 17 years seperated and going through divorce for 3 years. Worst nightmare. I had supported household for 7 years while husband persued Antique business. It was to be family run move on to auctioneering, live on the ocean in Maine , buy in Florida when kids were olderall feasable or so I thought. He was a "door knocker" hustling the elderly. His job soon became going to shows, museums,auctions and familiarizing himself with the Antique click.He was "investing" all inventory was stored at his family's home spread throughout homes of his sister and mother and God only knows where else.
I was burning out at work borrowed off of low interest credit gave him$$ to invest trying to jump start my future. The home was mine built before we met. I was always responsible for it he did not want to be put on the deed which left him with no feeling of responsibility. I was getting impatient was continuously told business was not stable and I was left in the back and I started to see his arrogance come out. Our last year b-4 yoyoing I recieved barely anything ,the last month I told him he needed to start contributing. He left and has been living like a Porno Star .Greediest , nastiest most self absorbed man I have ever met. Six months after leaving numerous purchases for himself Harley , Beach Cottage completely remodeled it on and on. Has not missed a Superbowl ,and after that him and his Harley go to Florida and do not return till after Bike Week.
He dragged his feet fighting all the way trying to tell me what he owed. He has lied a million lies and I was in a no win situation I tried to believe him.
I lost my job and still feel the mental repercusions of what he has done. We have two children who have also been discarded . He had been hot and cold I still am blown away .He had given me decent child support and picked up KOBRA FOR 1 1/2 YRS and a large amount of cash all put torwards debt BUT to little to late. I used all unemployment , cashed out my 401k trying to pay debt .He served me divorce papers I had found a sliding scale atty who after my 2nd hearing had gotten me a $50 a MONTH CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENT and was told to go to the state for Health Care. I also got to stay in my home, while hubby was living in his home paid in full , had full use of OUR beach cottage , and we could share a trailer that we have had for 11 years .I filed Chapter 13 to stop a forclosure while he sat and watched. I am spent . I Have taken waitressing jobs that I have lost because this has consumed me. He is tanning and works out every day he should be leaving soon for Florida. He chose his new lifestyle over his family and has very easily moved on. My husband is furious with me because I told him I want the cottage and the Harley sold and split.
I cannot afford a detective I know how he operates. He is in a large cash business , he has someone selling his things on the internet, he has checks written out to others and pays them to cash, he now travels throughout the country sells through consignment shops everywhere, I have checked out shows that I know he has sold at but his name is not being shown as a dealer. I emailed a sponsor of one of his shows asking the name he is working under they have a privacy policy she could take my # and have him call me .He has property that is in friends name , the friend he bought the Harley off of now claims he still owes $10000 . He is driving aaround in an older van after burning his 2002 van because of high mileage. He told his friend and wife to meet him in KEY WEST WHEN THEY WERE GOING DOWN FOR THE DAYTONA 500. He is a compulsive lier and how do you defend someone like that.
My husband has a home that he will never worry about a mortgage on , and his father's estate and whatever his mother will be leaving him,. They are wealthy . He has a home full of antiques .He has an attorney and an accountant that have I'M SURE taken care of anything dirty. He has not sweated once throughout this.I am constantly worried and are raising our children throughout all this.
I KNOW THERE IS PROBABLY TO MUCH WINEY GRIEF HERE . I have hired another attorney who is behind me but says proof is needed.Anybody out there got any suggestions??? OTHER THAN MOVE ON AND GET A JOB!!!