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I am speaking from my personal experience as a previous Realtor in South Carolina, Virginia, and Pennsylvania. My "commission" was based on what was customary for the particular area; in S Corolina it was 7% (split 3.5 and 3.5), while in Pennsylvania, it was 6% (split 3 and 3) Let's use South Carolina as an example. Customary was 7% (3.5 to selling broker, and 3.5 to buyers broker) At times, I certainly gave a discount to my sellers----BUT----that meant to ME, that if I chose to give a discount, I took the lessor, not split it evenly with the buyer's broker.
Lets say....I gave a discount from 7 % to 6 %. I would still give the customary commission of 3.5% to the selling broker, and I would take the "hit" and only receive 2.5%. Reason being...if I gave a discount, then my sellers should not be penalized by receiving less lookers from a buying broker because of the lessor commission offering. ( If a broker has 10 houses to show, unfortunately, the broker may choose to show only the "full" commision listings instead of serving the clients best interests. Many brokers do this, and many sellers think they are getting a break, but they are not. I most always had no problem with giving a discount because I would make it back from referrals. Also, note worthy----many brokerages would not allow their Realtors to give discounts --- however, I was a REMAX Realtor, therefore, I could set my own rates.
My worthy advice to you would be----interview several fulltime REALTORS, not agents, REALTORS, and if you negotiate a lower commission price, make sure the CORRECT SPLIT is shown on your listing agreement, and it is YOUR Realtor who is taking the discount. As people have said, Realtors are "hungry".... but, low balling a commission rarely keeps a Realtor, even a good one, motivated. The motivation rather comes from an aesthically appealing home in a good location, a fair commission, and a listing price that is marketable.
I hope this helps---and, good luck to you.