stealth2
Under the Radar Member
Sorry - missed that you'd filed. Just present things matter-of-factly. Present records of the expenses accrued for your child prior to Dad's walking vs since (he'll argue that you're inflating the costs just to "get him"). Additionally, provide documentation of what type of work you are qualified for, as well as wages for your area. Do also provide reasonable cost estimates for your son, both while you work and for respite care so you can get some downtime. Can your child attend public school, or do his needs require something more specialized?
One thing you should give consideration to is requesting post-majority support if your son is un.ikely to be self-supporting as an adult.
You should also realize that, once Dad & g/f realize he WILL be paying support, he will want parenting time. Present something fair, considering the distance & your child's travel abilities. Dad should be paying the transportation as he created the distance. That may be offset from CS.
One thing you should give consideration to is requesting post-majority support if your son is un.ikely to be self-supporting as an adult.
You should also realize that, once Dad & g/f realize he WILL be paying support, he will want parenting time. Present something fair, considering the distance & your child's travel abilities. Dad should be paying the transportation as he created the distance. That may be offset from CS.