i got it. wanted to get everything worded right, it is a long one, got to warn you.
depositions are today?
when you get there, take a really deep breath and walk in proud. keep everything under control. don't let the ex's accusations get to you. you are above all that. find out every little detail of his accusations so that you will be able to disprove them.
depositions with his lawyer? not DFS? if it is just his lawyer, do everything in your power to remain calm, and keep your answers brief. you don't have to give every little detail of your life to them. save the detailed explainations for DFS - be really cooperative with them.
i gotta say it again - remain calm and in control. it's a joke and when DFS is through with their investigation you will be able to blow him out of the water.