free_agent
Junior Member
What is the name of your state? Texas.
My husband's ex-wife is apparently trying to get on medicaid because of her illness. One of their sons (she and my hubby are not on speaking terms) called to ask his father if he had their original marriage certificate. (Long story short they actually have two--they got divorced and then remarried and later divorced after the kids were grown.) The certificate was from their first marriage--they had run off to Mexico as teens. He told his father that she's got approved temporarily, but needs this paperwork to make it permanent.
Being that she has pulled some things before I'm suspicious of what she's really up to. I'm wondering why she would need her marriage certificate. If she just needed to prove she had no spousal support or marriage, they should only need her divorce certificate. And even if they needed the marriage cert, why not from the second time they got married which would be availble through the courts.
She did not really work outside the home very much. I think you have to work for at least 10 years to get Social Security, right? My concern is that she is trying to get SSD or benefit based on her previous marriage. Can she do this and if she does is that going to effect my husband's future social security benefits? He's not very many years away from being able to file for them. (I don't have a problem with her getting help...but I don't think it should be at his expense since they've been divorced for several years now.)
TIA
My husband's ex-wife is apparently trying to get on medicaid because of her illness. One of their sons (she and my hubby are not on speaking terms) called to ask his father if he had their original marriage certificate. (Long story short they actually have two--they got divorced and then remarried and later divorced after the kids were grown.) The certificate was from their first marriage--they had run off to Mexico as teens. He told his father that she's got approved temporarily, but needs this paperwork to make it permanent.
Being that she has pulled some things before I'm suspicious of what she's really up to. I'm wondering why she would need her marriage certificate. If she just needed to prove she had no spousal support or marriage, they should only need her divorce certificate. And even if they needed the marriage cert, why not from the second time they got married which would be availble through the courts.
She did not really work outside the home very much. I think you have to work for at least 10 years to get Social Security, right? My concern is that she is trying to get SSD or benefit based on her previous marriage. Can she do this and if she does is that going to effect my husband's future social security benefits? He's not very many years away from being able to file for them. (I don't have a problem with her getting help...but I don't think it should be at his expense since they've been divorced for several years now.)
TIA
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