Tretti said:
Robbie,
I know that you are very worried about this and torn between your wife and your family.And I am sure that your father has been making your decisions for 46 years it seems as though he really does want what is best for you I don't think that he would steer you wrong I don't think that he would intentionally hurt you he just wants to protect you. so I think that you should do what dad says I think he does know best.There are reasons for everything and only god knows why life unfolds the way that it does it doesn't seem fair at the time but in time you will understand.I could not begin to imagine being in your shoes but if I were I would trust my family enough to know that they were doing the right things in my best intrest.Your family is there for a reason trust them.
THANKS, I do trust them. But when you move out on your one, you get different advice like handicap should listen to their own kind. I got 20 years of this & "Don't listen to your parents", See were I US TO live their were people who had no parents or their parents just moved them in then forgot them. Do to them thinking that their handicap kids were currsed or from the devil or what ever. Maybe they just got so tired & could not raise them on their own. Were I lived there also was a lot of people who were buddies or made families & I guess what happen, was people who had no parents upbringing or good parents. May have not learned things so they all got to gether, & made up their own up brining. Now there was a lot of that were I lived, so I hope after this court case is over [no divorce] then things will start to be better. 
Good luck and take care~*
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My dad & step mom are going on 2 trips (1 short & 1 long) & dad told me he does not trust me anymore, because so many times I have told him that I will not go back with her (When we were dating) & I do things when they are away. I told my step mom earlier today that I do love her, but I have to let her go. Everyone seems to want me to forget her. I hate having to stop caring & helping people less off then me, but maybe they see something that I do not see. I told dad that I could write a letter to the lawyer & maybe, just maybe he may let me tell her how I really feel. I had medical problems when I was with her (+ every day I was living in this apartment building), so I better get off of here & start the letter. Because september 11th is coming up & even though it is a SCHEDULING ONLY, maybe the lawyer will let me try to work it out before the hearing.
Wish me luck!
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Dad talked to the lawyer today, & he told dad just to let it take it's course. I can say "hello" to her, the lawyer wants me to hold on to the ring. Also HE THINKS SHE DOES NOT HAVE A LAWYER. Dad also asked him if he does it for free, & the lawyer says in some cases he does do it for free. Then dad asked him if he could do my case for free, the lawyer hung up after they talked so I may know tomorrow. Tomorrow is just a scheduling only thing.
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Today Sept 11th Dad & I went to the scheduling meeting, & dad thinks the same judge today will hear our case. Also dad thinks that I will lose everything. The Judge got a littl
@ the lawer for not having a gaurden for me. There was some things that we 3 did not know, so we all heard something different. October 15th is our 2 hour court date. Get this she [wife] is rep herself, is this legal? But other then that, oh when she was there my lawyer wisk us [dad & I] off. So that is it, maybe I will lose everything, maybe I will not. Oh, the court room were the scheduling went on was crowed as in standing room only. Also the woman who was with the judge was doing the paper work who handed us the papers for the court was good looking! Also it seems like this case from what dad tells me may be thrown out what ever that means.
Later
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The court date is November 15th, the judge said;
"If he can't understand the marraige lic, then how can he understand the annulment?"
Dad told me on the way home that the judge may throw it out, for which case I lose everything;
Family
Maoney
Medical stuff
& I am not allowed to have any communcations with her, so I do not know how she is doing. I do not know if she is doing better then me or not, I know nothing. I do not know what to do & to make it worse dad said if I go back to her he will wash his hands [dis own me] of me & forget me.
I wish there was a law that will keep families together EVEN in the worst of times.
Also dad says;
I AM NOT MARRIED IN GODS EYSS?
This may go down as a STRANGE CASE
Question:
Can a judge after hearing all sides make it so we go back together?
I do love her & she loves me (I think, but I am to have no conntact
