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pupphead
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just married on dec 29 2000 in the state of Pa.
I have just got married Dec. 29, 2000 to a woman that was living (as I know) for 4 years in the same house with a guy up untill September of this year. September is when she moved in with me at my house. She is not on the house mortgage or the deed. I have found out that they have been with each other for
over 13 years on and off. She is used for all legal things as (medical, bills and auto loans). Now that we are married
she was going to stop doing his mail and taking a interest in his personal affairs, but this has continued. She tells me that she is
concerned about his girl friend and what she can do for him and their 13-year-old daughter. I am doing a room for the daughter
and there is no legal custody of her and he will not contribute to her support at my home. She also has from the day after we were married
at his house with him alone and also when the child is there. She just was the last Thurs. and Friday when I was at work for over 4 hours.
She told me she went there to get her things and both times she came home with a little bag or milk crate of her things. She as of today has
not changed or attempted to change any of her names to her new married name. I also now find out after trying to put her on my checking account
That she has outstanding checks from 1998 (two different banks) and she can't be put on any bank account. She also is a co-signer on the 2 cars they have.
Car loans are in both their names and her ex is in a bankruptcy now and all the loans are frozen. We now are fighting about her doing his mail for him and
Giving him money to get him through the week. We have fought about her doing these things for him and her answer is always "We have a child together",
so thats why she needs to know about his personal life and helping him with his bills. As times goes by more and more is being discovered about how tight
they really were even through they never married. It sometimes with statements like " I'm not leaving here with out something from this" this and other
Sound to me that this marriage is only to get what she can get from me in money. She tells me how bad it was in that relationship but still calls him for
For what ever?? When I talked about my 401k plan she would not sign off on the inherence for my 3 children saying, "she needed to have support from me now
to feel like she belongs and I love her. I am a widower and this money was before I was and am involved with her. Is she legally intitled to this?
I am going to claim her on my taxes as joint married but the ex said he is going to claim her because she lived with him up until Sept of 2000.
Do I still have the right to claim her? Is the information about her financial situation I'm finding out a reason for a annulment?
Or is divorce the only recourse?
anyhelp thank you..
I have just got married Dec. 29, 2000 to a woman that was living (as I know) for 4 years in the same house with a guy up untill September of this year. September is when she moved in with me at my house. She is not on the house mortgage or the deed. I have found out that they have been with each other for
over 13 years on and off. She is used for all legal things as (medical, bills and auto loans). Now that we are married
she was going to stop doing his mail and taking a interest in his personal affairs, but this has continued. She tells me that she is
concerned about his girl friend and what she can do for him and their 13-year-old daughter. I am doing a room for the daughter
and there is no legal custody of her and he will not contribute to her support at my home. She also has from the day after we were married
at his house with him alone and also when the child is there. She just was the last Thurs. and Friday when I was at work for over 4 hours.
She told me she went there to get her things and both times she came home with a little bag or milk crate of her things. She as of today has
not changed or attempted to change any of her names to her new married name. I also now find out after trying to put her on my checking account
That she has outstanding checks from 1998 (two different banks) and she can't be put on any bank account. She also is a co-signer on the 2 cars they have.
Car loans are in both their names and her ex is in a bankruptcy now and all the loans are frozen. We now are fighting about her doing his mail for him and
Giving him money to get him through the week. We have fought about her doing these things for him and her answer is always "We have a child together",
so thats why she needs to know about his personal life and helping him with his bills. As times goes by more and more is being discovered about how tight
they really were even through they never married. It sometimes with statements like " I'm not leaving here with out something from this" this and other
Sound to me that this marriage is only to get what she can get from me in money. She tells me how bad it was in that relationship but still calls him for
For what ever?? When I talked about my 401k plan she would not sign off on the inherence for my 3 children saying, "she needed to have support from me now
to feel like she belongs and I love her. I am a widower and this money was before I was and am involved with her. Is she legally intitled to this?
I am going to claim her on my taxes as joint married but the ex said he is going to claim her because she lived with him up until Sept of 2000.
Do I still have the right to claim her? Is the information about her financial situation I'm finding out a reason for a annulment?
Or is divorce the only recourse?
anyhelp thank you..