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Hi everyone, it has been a while but I need your input again.
Quick background I have been divorced for 8 years. Have 2 children, I am primary parent. Ex has serious, documented mental health issues. He has remarried.
New issues ex started allowing his wife to write to children's teachers requesting meetings and information. My lawyer wrote to ex's attorney to have his client (ex) put a stop to this behavior. Ex's attorney stated that I need to accept this woman as part of children's life. Okay - I know she gets to be with them during ex's visitation, but I have serious issues with her involving herself in educational and/or educational decisions. From what I have read on this forum, I am fine in this area.
Now the other thing, ex is going to take me back to court to have it ordered that I attend family therapy. Just him and me. He feels this will help me and our commuunication. He does not like that we only communicate regarding the children via email. He wants us to have "oral" communication (his words). We stop talking due to many incidences of outburst by him that were threatening in nature. Has anyone ever heard of couples therapy after 8 years of divorce being ordered?
Thanks for the help!
Hi everyone, it has been a while but I need your input again.
Quick background I have been divorced for 8 years. Have 2 children, I am primary parent. Ex has serious, documented mental health issues. He has remarried.
New issues ex started allowing his wife to write to children's teachers requesting meetings and information. My lawyer wrote to ex's attorney to have his client (ex) put a stop to this behavior. Ex's attorney stated that I need to accept this woman as part of children's life. Okay - I know she gets to be with them during ex's visitation, but I have serious issues with her involving herself in educational and/or educational decisions. From what I have read on this forum, I am fine in this area.
Now the other thing, ex is going to take me back to court to have it ordered that I attend family therapy. Just him and me. He feels this will help me and our commuunication. He does not like that we only communicate regarding the children via email. He wants us to have "oral" communication (his words). We stop talking due to many incidences of outburst by him that were threatening in nature. Has anyone ever heard of couples therapy after 8 years of divorce being ordered?
Thanks for the help!