All I'm saying is how do we know that the mother and father were living together at the time she left? They could have been living apart for a while. The point I'm making is, there are a lot of what ifs, thats all.nextwife said:
Ummm, she is still married to someone else! And she MOVED the kids, while still adjusting to mom and dad not being together AND adjusting to being uprooted from everything they knew, into another man's home and slept with him while her kids were under the same roof. Still married.
I don't care how long sge "knew him" she shoulda kept him at a distance from her kids, at least until the ink was dry on a divorce.
BTW- I knew my husband five years before we got married, but I sure as heck didn't let myself get pregnant by him until AFTER we had a year of marriage togther. Knowing someone a long time does NOT mean one is entitled to be reckless.
And a legal seperation, how can you think that counts as being married? Maybe I'm naive but I see that a the last nail in the coffin.