What is the name of your state (only U.S. law)?
Connecticut
My father died. No will can be found. 4 children. One child (sister) kidnaps (wording?) my mother and under the guise of helping adds her name to all the bank accounts. (there is also a house and property) My mother has been put in an Assisted Living Facility under the guise of a temporary visit.
The Assisted Living Facility has her locked up. Last time I visited they would not even let a visitor take her out temporary.
How can one argue the Assisted Living if all this fancy stuff is to the great benefit of her ?? !!! Actually she is 92 years old but in excellent physical health and I think mental health. Most in their 90's have some little mental oddities. (?)
To me it is the saddest thing I can see on this earth. She is un-happy. She begs to let her out. o--they all have to adjust !!!!
Who can argue Assisted Living for anybody age 92 ?
I have been trying to help her in any way possible but have met dead ends at every direction for months. She has even been taken to different states and when I start complaining she is re-shipped elsewhere. Sister does it.
I simply argue if there are 4 living children we all should know what is going on and participate. (if we even have that right)
I have finally figured out why the great odds. Her bank accounts are being used to dig her grave. I see an audit of one and lawyers..lawyers..lawyers...Even her $1000 bed in the Assisted Living Facility she paid for out of her money. She is not aware of any of this !!!! She just begs to get out.
Fraud ? How can one scream if everything in her bank accounts is going to the benefit of her although she does not even know it ? Fancy lawyers to help her !!!!!!!
My oddity is I believe there should be some legal process. She does not even like her expensive furniture but she paid for it. (not knowing it)
Besides 'what is best for her' I think there should be some democracy in those decisions. If we agree she belongs in Assisted Living not even democracy at where and what level and who knows what ? Lawyers being used out of her money that she is not aware of that might be to her benefit but who says so ? One child and the other 3 have no voice and zero knowledge of what is going on ?
I am told this sister has NO POA or similar.
I can find no PROBATE type process.
I have complained to the end of earth and it seems the only place a person gets is nowhere. O--this wonderful sister must be doing what is best for your mother !!!!!
Again. I have to believe in some legal process. I can find none.
I want to ask the banks what authority my sister has to have her name on my mothers accounts. (this was done under the lies of helping to consolidate money for my mother right when my father died. Her eyeglasses and hearing aid were mysteriously gone)
Bank of America was wonderful. They flagged accounts and from what I was told nothing has been stopped but just a question of what authority my sister had to add her name. They told me she had no POA in the system.
Chase. Zero. Must be up to 500k here (well..there was) and this is where the lawyers are being paid from.
My question ?? How can I stop this or say not stop but have something simply investigated ? I believe in some legal process.
I have taken my mother out on visits many times. She is locked up but I have been allowed to take her out locally. I just visited her and they refused me permission to take her out !!! Just when I discover her funding !!!!
I easily get her to sign a note stating she has given nobody power of attorney or if she did she withdraws such. BUT what good is it !!!! I can not take her out of the jail !!!!
How can I have her legitimate protest the usage of her funds without her permission ?
Yes. I believe in what is best for her but something stinks here. No legal process. I asked by what authority she was in there and this Maplewood of Orange,Ct. simply says..'pending' Power of Attorney. Pending and lock somebody up ?? Even the mentally ill can be locked up 48 hours but then a legal process ?
How to I get her to legally put out a document or statement ?
They have her locked up.
If incompetent who says so ? No legal process ?
Connecticut
My father died. No will can be found. 4 children. One child (sister) kidnaps (wording?) my mother and under the guise of helping adds her name to all the bank accounts. (there is also a house and property) My mother has been put in an Assisted Living Facility under the guise of a temporary visit.
The Assisted Living Facility has her locked up. Last time I visited they would not even let a visitor take her out temporary.
How can one argue the Assisted Living if all this fancy stuff is to the great benefit of her ?? !!! Actually she is 92 years old but in excellent physical health and I think mental health. Most in their 90's have some little mental oddities. (?)
To me it is the saddest thing I can see on this earth. She is un-happy. She begs to let her out. o--they all have to adjust !!!!
Who can argue Assisted Living for anybody age 92 ?
I have been trying to help her in any way possible but have met dead ends at every direction for months. She has even been taken to different states and when I start complaining she is re-shipped elsewhere. Sister does it.
I simply argue if there are 4 living children we all should know what is going on and participate. (if we even have that right)
I have finally figured out why the great odds. Her bank accounts are being used to dig her grave. I see an audit of one and lawyers..lawyers..lawyers...Even her $1000 bed in the Assisted Living Facility she paid for out of her money. She is not aware of any of this !!!! She just begs to get out.
Fraud ? How can one scream if everything in her bank accounts is going to the benefit of her although she does not even know it ? Fancy lawyers to help her !!!!!!!
My oddity is I believe there should be some legal process. She does not even like her expensive furniture but she paid for it. (not knowing it)
Besides 'what is best for her' I think there should be some democracy in those decisions. If we agree she belongs in Assisted Living not even democracy at where and what level and who knows what ? Lawyers being used out of her money that she is not aware of that might be to her benefit but who says so ? One child and the other 3 have no voice and zero knowledge of what is going on ?
I am told this sister has NO POA or similar.
I can find no PROBATE type process.
I have complained to the end of earth and it seems the only place a person gets is nowhere. O--this wonderful sister must be doing what is best for your mother !!!!!
Again. I have to believe in some legal process. I can find none.
I want to ask the banks what authority my sister has to have her name on my mothers accounts. (this was done under the lies of helping to consolidate money for my mother right when my father died. Her eyeglasses and hearing aid were mysteriously gone)
Bank of America was wonderful. They flagged accounts and from what I was told nothing has been stopped but just a question of what authority my sister had to add her name. They told me she had no POA in the system.
Chase. Zero. Must be up to 500k here (well..there was) and this is where the lawyers are being paid from.
My question ?? How can I stop this or say not stop but have something simply investigated ? I believe in some legal process.
I have taken my mother out on visits many times. She is locked up but I have been allowed to take her out locally. I just visited her and they refused me permission to take her out !!! Just when I discover her funding !!!!
I easily get her to sign a note stating she has given nobody power of attorney or if she did she withdraws such. BUT what good is it !!!! I can not take her out of the jail !!!!
How can I have her legitimate protest the usage of her funds without her permission ?
Yes. I believe in what is best for her but something stinks here. No legal process. I asked by what authority she was in there and this Maplewood of Orange,Ct. simply says..'pending' Power of Attorney. Pending and lock somebody up ?? Even the mentally ill can be locked up 48 hours but then a legal process ?
How to I get her to legally put out a document or statement ?
They have her locked up.
If incompetent who says so ? No legal process ?